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engagement ring

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by awwmann, Mar 24, 2009.

  1. Mar 24, 2009 at 7:44 PM
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    hillbillytaco

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    :eek:15k for a ring:eek: damn dude yeah if this doesn't pan out sell it just like pete said if the next chick finds out she's gettin used jewlery especially that you are gonna be lookin for a third fiance
     
  2. Mar 24, 2009 at 8:09 PM
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    Exactly what I was thinking!!! :rant:
     
  3. Mar 24, 2009 at 8:12 PM
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    id keep it, all relationships have their ups and downs.. some worse then others.. but if you really love her yall will be back together..
     
  4. Mar 24, 2009 at 8:13 PM
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    $15k??? holy shit. I'm glad that my wife was happy with a $3k ring. It ain't about what they go for locally, or what everyone else has, it was about what she wanted.
     
  5. Mar 24, 2009 at 8:19 PM
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    sale it tomorrow and take a golf vacation with a buddy
     
  6. Mar 25, 2009 at 1:20 AM
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    If my bf gave me a $15k ring I'd smack him and make him return it!

    But anyway...I think hold onto it for awhile and see how things go when you start work and she finishes school, if the fights continue then move on cause divorce sucks ;).
     
  7. Mar 25, 2009 at 4:54 AM
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    Simon's Mom

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    agreed FSC!

    I'd rather elope on a ski vacation with no fancy ring!

    Wish the best for you & its sweet you are willing to sacrifice for your gf but take of yourself too! Its a 2 way street.
     
  8. Mar 25, 2009 at 4:55 AM
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    Burns

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    Good thing I didn't get my wife's ring in the City. If I was you I would walk away, breaking up and getting back together a bunch of times is not a good way to start a marriage. just my .02
     
  9. Mar 25, 2009 at 4:56 AM
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    brianr

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    find a new chick, and give it to her. QUICK.
     
  10. Mar 25, 2009 at 6:24 AM
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    There you go - you must have left the little head do the thinkin' for the big head! !!! What would you have done if she got pissed and flushed it down the shitter! !!!

    Get rid of it and next time get something a lot cheaper:)
     
  11. Mar 25, 2009 at 6:53 AM
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    It's all in my head at the moment...
    I'm glad the ladies chimed in....I was about to put up the searchlight for Janster to get her opinion.

    This was almost turning into a "Sausage Party".
     
  12. Mar 25, 2009 at 7:03 AM
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    My wife and I had our fair share of arguements before we got married. It was a very stressful time between school, wedding, home buying, and work. We never thought about calling it off though.

    How long have you two been going out?
     
  13. Mar 25, 2009 at 7:11 AM
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    I would count yourself as fortunate as hell that someone would give you 12.5 back on a $15,000 piece of Jewelry with the outrageous mark up on the stuff

    I would grab the 12.5 in a heartbeat and sit on it. You can always repurchase the ring or one similar if necessary. The 12.5 offer could evaporate and i am pretty sure no one else would give you that for a piece of 'used' jewelry.
     
  14. Mar 25, 2009 at 7:13 AM
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    martie

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    Not to be a Debbie Downer but breaking up/getting back together usually indicates a deeper problem. Instead of resolving whatever issue there is, it's easier to just say "I'm done!" and the problem will keep coming back.

    Maybe hold onto it for a little while but at some point you have to figure out whether or not this is right for you and if the relationship is something that is sustainable in the long term. If you can't get through this rough patch then what's to say you'll be able to handle another rocky time further down the road?

    and daaaaamn. $15,000? I'd feel strange wearing something worth that much money.
     
  15. Mar 25, 2009 at 7:21 AM
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    TicTacOma

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    It's all in my head at the moment...
    Get the dough-ray-mee for the ring, figure out how much you'd want to REALLY spend for the next one.... subtract the NOW from the Then and call it profit.

    $12,500 sounds like a take it leave it to me. Walk in next week and you may be looking at less. You can do whatever with the cash in hand.
     
  16. Mar 25, 2009 at 7:31 AM
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    you take back the ring its over, how did she give it back?

    Throw it at you in anger is a good give back, after she cooled off she now wants it back and is missing it and you are in the drivers seat for some make up sex.

    A long talk, we need time apart give back...is very bad. Sell the ring now while you still can.
     
  17. Mar 25, 2009 at 7:52 AM
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    Dilsky

    Dilsky There go my nipples again!

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    Enough talk lets see a picture of this rock!

    Lucky for me my GF decides she likes the dainty ones cause she has small fingers! it will be a while before she gs one.....but i can work with dainty.
     
  18. Mar 25, 2009 at 8:29 AM
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    $15,000 bucks for an ENGAGEMENT ring?!! Jesus.

    I'm sorry to be frank, but paying that kind of money for jewelry of any kind is ridiculous. I paid $500 for my Wife's ring and she bought a secondhand ring for me for $50. Its just fucking jewelry. $15k would be much better spent as a down payment for a house, retirement, or something else.

    Lastly, Diamonds are basically one big farce. Debeers has a virtual control over their mining, production, and sales and as such are not allowed to trade in the USA. They can only sell to other re-sellers whom bring them to the US. So the markup on them is often 1,000% or more.
     
  19. Mar 25, 2009 at 8:47 AM
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    weve been together a little over 2 years shes my sisters best friend known her a long time we were fighting over something this weekend i really dont remember what and she hung up the phone text me get your ring i cant do this anymore so being the ass i am i said ok lets exchange our stuff and end it . i havent gone over to get it yet .now shes texting and calling do i want to talk about it that she doesnt want to break up i dont know im crazy about her but i dont know
     
  20. Mar 25, 2009 at 8:51 AM
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