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Gah this sucks!

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by Lentsnh, Mar 19, 2010.

  1. Mar 19, 2010 at 4:32 PM
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    Lentsnh

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    So the college chick I was "dating" has decided for us to be friends once again. She says her school and work is interfering with our old relationship. But yet shes "talking" to a guy who smokes pot and appearantly she really likes him. I call B.S.!!!!!

    For the past 3 days we have been fighting in texts and over the phone and a little bit in person. Istill want to have a relationship with her because I know she wont have weed or alcohol shoved in her face with me. I'm angry and VERY jealous that she's talking to such a guy.

    Yes I'm happy with being her friend but in honesty, I would much rather date her.

    There's more to say but I don't feel like typing it out. I want her to make up her mind. It hurts to see her interested in that type guy.

    We both want everything to be back to normal. No more fighting or whatever happens. Just a good ol' friendship. Hopefully she turns around her thoughts.



    I'm torn up by this... Just had to vent.:(
     
  2. Mar 19, 2010 at 4:40 PM
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    tacomakid96

    tacomakid96 Can you skin Grizz, pilgram?

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    That sucks she's into a fuckin looser pot head. She will probably be back around but I would go on dating other chicks for now.
     
  3. Mar 19, 2010 at 5:57 PM
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    Evil Monkey

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    Sorry to say it but if she just wants to be friends, she doesn't want to date. With all of the excuses about time and her mentioning she wants to be friends, she's just trying to be polite. She'd much rather you both agree to it rather than coming straight out and telling you it's over. But basically, that's what she's telling you. It sucks but I'm afraid you'll have to move on and find someone that's into you. I'd give yourself a good amount of time before you see her "as friends".
     
  4. Mar 19, 2010 at 6:01 PM
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    eschonle

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    move on. there's plenty of other fish in the sea. If she's being flaky then tell that bitch to peace out
     
  5. Mar 19, 2010 at 6:02 PM
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    Andrew H

    Andrew H What is this "search" you speak of?

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    yeah nothing to do but get over it and get your dick wet from someone lse who wont waste your time..
     
  6. Mar 19, 2010 at 6:02 PM
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    Yeah dood- It's not your call. It sucks that she wants to play it that way...but it's her life.
    You've got tons of time and tons of ladies out there- Go get you some!!!
     
  7. Mar 19, 2010 at 6:02 PM
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    HBMurphy

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  8. Mar 19, 2010 at 6:03 PM
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    You're how old and you've been together how long?

    Honestly, I'd say move on.
     
  9. Mar 19, 2010 at 6:22 PM
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    MurphMan

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    Don't be, seriously. There's many more wimmin you'll be meeting that you'll stump up all over. Not worth getting bent out of shape. Trust me, you'll figure this out by the time you burn through a handful of relationships. All good.
     
  10. Mar 19, 2010 at 6:36 PM
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    Tell her u got enough friends and to come back when she gets some sense.
    Oh and props on gettin an older chick!!
     
  11. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:21 PM
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    I agree completely. a girl that actually wants to be with you wont pull that shit. those are excuses from someone who doesn't want to be the "bad guy" by ending hte relationship outright.
     
  12. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:25 PM
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    the friend thing doesn't work out, especially if your a jealous guy...not that i would know :rolleyes:
     
  13. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:26 PM
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    how do you know hes a loser? dont stereo type

    some people smoke weed everyday and are more professional and make more money than most
     
  14. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:30 PM
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  15. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:34 PM
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    I was in a 16 year relationship/marriage, and the day she started a conversation off with "have you ever thought we would be better friends?" I knew it was coming, bang!! A month later came the seperation/divorce talk.. I was pissed, wanted her to change her mind, got jealous after I moved out, and she was talking to some slacker that barely had a job.. Moral of the story, Tell her exactly how you feel, what you want from a relationship with her, she doesn't agree move on bro.. Oh and yes, there plenty of fish in the sea.. I'm 35 dating a hot blonde 21 year old..
     
  16. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:34 PM
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  17. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:39 PM
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    I'm kinda with Evil Monkey on this one. Best you can probably do is tell her ok, friends it is. Let her know your there for her when this doesn't work out but you need to move on too.
    Sometimes letting something go will give you a chance to find yourself too.

    I don't know too many guys who haven't gone through something like this in their lives. It will hurt for a while, but it will get better.

    Good luck, whatever you decide.
     
  18. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:45 PM
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  19. Mar 22, 2010 at 12:46 PM
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    mntbiker2008

    mntbiker2008 First I derp.. then I herp

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    damn... none of use younger guys are having luck around here with falling in to the friend zone... damn women! good luck man... hopefully things change... if not.. time to move on...
     
  20. Mar 22, 2010 at 1:56 PM
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