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Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by tarheelfan_08, Jan 7, 2009.

  1. tarheelfan_08

    tarheelfan_08 [OP] Carolina Alliance

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    SO a buddy of mine is recently having a lot of problems with his GF and I am out of advice! They fight a lot and argue over stupid things(its both his and her fault) They try to stop but it is something new every week! They really love each other and he does not wanna lose her! And recently she has not been telling him eveyrthing she is doing! Like today he called and said that she told him that her brother and her went to visit some old high school teacher! BEfore she went to work at 3! Well one of his best friends saw both of them eatting at a resturant together! Is this something to worry about?? WHat should I tell him to do to fix everything??
     
  2. 311offroad

    311offroad Stock Taco For Now

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    sounds sketch to me.
     
  3. HerNameIsLucy

    HerNameIsLucy I miss Lucy. :-(

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    tigerfan00 BECAUSE INTERNETS!! Thor

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    she has every right to do what she wants when she wants

    theres no reason whatsoever that she has to tell him where shes going and who shes going there with
     
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    mudduck Nobody makes me bleed my own blood.

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    tell him to dump her ass and go out and get some strange!
     
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    JimmyCrackCorn Atlanta Falcons

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    1) Is the old high school teacher a man?
    2) Did in fact the brother go with?

    If the answer is 1) Yes, and 2) No...there might be a problem. Of course it certainly could be just lunch! But more than likely lunch and dessert!
     
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    Run!!!
     
  8. tarheelfan_08

    tarheelfan_08 [OP] Carolina Alliance

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    They have been dating for 7 months and are extremely close! She used to tell him all the time where she was going! But recently she has not! And its weird because her brother has started hanging out with her ex bf of 2 years!
     
  9. lsocoee

    lsocoee My hair is all natural Thor

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    you can tell him, but don't put it in his mind that there was something fishy going on.
     
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    tigerfan00 BECAUSE INTERNETS!! Thor

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    maybe she's tired of him or having to explain herself anytime she wants to do something
     
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    98tacoma27 :POOPCORN: Thor

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    Times 2 Tiger. Sounds a lottle over possesive. Trust issues?
     
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    TRD4x4858 Taco Traitor!

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    7 months isnt that long, shes probably over the fact that she has to tell him everything, Not long now, its a slippery slope
     
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    tigerfan00 BECAUSE INTERNETS!! Thor

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    to add...i wouldnt touch this problem if theyre your friends

    best thing you can do is to stay out of it and let everything run its course

    when you give him some advice and everything goes south...he's going to blame you



    and judging by a certain older post about a gf/her brother/her ex/you...i (no offense)wouldnt necessarily trust your relationship advice
     
  14. tarheelfan_08

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    He does have a lot of trust issues! HE always accuses her of that! And I used to have that problem with my GF(ha i guess its rubbed off on him!) But i tried telling him and he just cant do it! Especially with the ex bf coming to stuff with her brotehr and coming over to their house!
     
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    Ha this is true lol! I went through the same thing! ANd weird thing is his gf and mien r friends! Only dif is I dont like mines brother and he likes his gfs brotehr lol
     
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    tell him to get a hooker, always calms me down anyway.
     
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    sooner07 1/2 man 1/2 amazing

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    He should probably just slap her around for lying to him.
     
  18. tigerfan00

    tigerfan00 BECAUSE INTERNETS!! Thor

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    trust issues will kill a relationship. period.

    dont get tangled in their mess...

    he's gonna have to work out his trust issues on his own

    i'd be willing to bet that this is only his side of the story...but what he isnt telling is that he's getting mad at her and such when she doesnt tell him everytime she takes a breath or blinks her eyes or whatever

    and she's picking fights in retaliation because shes tired of it



    i believe the phrase "honeymoon is over" applies here
     
  19. tarheelfan_08

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    HA great advice this guy is 23 and a the biggest worry wart in the world ha
     
  20. tarheelfan_08

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    Ha you can not hit a women! And also he really does not know if anything is true! and he cant talk to her about it since she is at work(which is a good thing with his stupid temper)
     
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