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girlfriend left me

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by mike686, Oct 7, 2010.

  1. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:44 PM
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    mike686

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    Well just as the title says yeah my girlsfriend of a little over two years just left me about two weeks ago i tried to get her back but she wont even talk to me im the kind of guy that if you don't tell me its not my fault im just gonna assume that everything i did ruined my relationship with her i don't know or understand why she left me so i've been sulking for the past few days and don't know what to do
     
  2. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:46 PM
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    Seabass

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    You don't really care, do you.
    Ex girl to the next girl.
     
  3. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:47 PM
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    HondaGM

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    to the next girl
     
  4. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:48 PM
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    sorry to hear. but..you're too young to worry about that stuff. 19 years old... knock em dead
    best of luck to you man.
     
  5. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:49 PM
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    1337Taco

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    You will get over it. There are other fish in the sea.
     
  6. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:50 PM
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    Dark Knight

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    1 cease communication completely with her.
    2 get a new hobby
    3 find new GF
    4 start happiness all over again.
     
  7. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:50 PM
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    PLC721

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    bro we're the same age, a coupe months ago my gf and i of 2 years broke up, yeah i was down but i met someone new and now am happier than ever! stick close to your friends and go out and do stuff :)
     
  8. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:51 PM
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    Dude you're 19, you should be thanking her. Go lay as much pipe as you possibly can
     
  9. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:51 PM
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    catch up with friends and the next girl (better) will come along. I was exactly your age when my serious girlfriend of about 3 years and I broke up...while I was visiting her with her family in NY. Paid a bunch of $ to fly home early. Took a couple of months to realize it was the best for both of us. Met someone much better for me...15 years later (and 3 kids) couldn't be happier.
     
  10. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:52 PM
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    toy02ota

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    Man I know how you feel. My ex girlfriend of 2 years left me august 29. It's not easy but time will make it better. There's not much I can tell you that I'm sure you haven't already heard. Stay strong and remember that you are the only person responsible for your happiness. Pm me if you need to talk.
     
  11. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:54 PM
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    Only bad thing is i haven't been able to find anyone or nothing this sucks without having her around left all my friends for her i really hate being alone because of her i lost all of my friends
     
  12. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:55 PM
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    don't blame yourself, man. she was young. girls at that age tend to be selfish whore's who don't know what they want so they bounce from douchebag to douchebag. no big loss, homie. take advantage of your new found freedom and party your ass off.
     
  13. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:56 PM
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    your friends will come back, hit up people to hang out. trust me i went thru the same thing
     
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    Everything happens for a reason man. Keep you're head up. The right lady will be along before you know it.
     
  15. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:57 PM
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    Did you trip on your skirt?

    Suck it up and move on, plenty of broads out there! If you keep thinking about it, you'll drive yourself crazy. Some Women aren't strong enough to confront you, to why she left you.

    Might be good to take a break for a few months; you'll end up finding someone else sooner or later.
     
  16. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:57 PM
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    ^THIS!

    It only takes 1 person to end a relationship. She did, so it's now up to you to move on.

    Don't spend excessive amounts of time trying to figure out what happened, what you could have done differently, or contemplating ways of getting back together. Once it's over, there's nothing you can do about it. Suck it up and get your ass back out there.

    Have a ball dude. You're free! :yay:
     
  17. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:58 PM
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    Um, I assume you meant other than him?! :eek:
     
  18. Oct 7, 2010 at 1:59 PM
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    If you lost all your friends b/c of her.... Then you must ask yourself what was wrong with HER that all your friends wouldn't stick around. You will find a good girl and she wont make you chose between her and your friends.
     
  19. Oct 7, 2010 at 2:06 PM
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    mike686

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    Yeah that was it she made me choose between her or my friends and she would then yell at me for doing the same thing to her
     
  20. Oct 7, 2010 at 2:08 PM
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    It's better you aren't with her than man. I used to be in a similar place to you. Hang in there.
     
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