Help deciding on tires/sizes for my needs

Hey guys. Bought my tacoma prerunner new at the end of 15. I'm finally doing some mods and need help deciding on tires and sizes. I've heard mixed reviews and imput everywhere. I have 16x8 pro comp rims with 0 offset and 4.5 bs and 3 inch lift spacers in front with 2.5 blocks in back. Question is can I fit a 285/75 without cutting/grinding (mudflats are removed) if not I'll do 267/75. Also trying to decide on tire brands. Leaning towards goodyear authoritys, falken wildpeaks or bfg ko2s. Mainly city/highway/dirt road and also tow my boat alot. Just want something agressive looking. Not really offroading so much. Recommendations guys?? This is my first tacoma and don't know much. Thanks guys

 

Can't answer your question about if 285s would fit. However, you could also think about 255/85-16, which has a nice height and is available in some aggressive patterns like the BFG MT. Could also consider Goodyear duratracs in 265 or 285, they seem to look bigger with the sidewall pattern.