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HELP! Taking this girl out

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by GotLift37, May 4, 2009.

  1. May 4, 2009 at 7:38 AM
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    GotLift37

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    Okay me (matt) and this girl (chelsea) we been good friends for the past 3 years or so. We've dated before broke up and still been good friends. I've always had a thing for her. the past 6-8 months our friendship kinda died down a bit. Well I kept on telling her im going to take her out on a date sometime soon.(started last week) Just so happends her birthday is today May 4th. We decided we both have free time when I get off work Thursday. So we got the day and time down. Now just need to find a place to eat or go. Im sure I'll be hungry after work. So food is the case and maybe a movie after. She eats just about any kind of food just like me. Can anyone give me some ideas on how to really impress her? We will be going to Chattanooga Tennessee for sure. Just not to positive on how to really impress her anymore. Maybe a fancy resturant downtown? Horse and buggy ride through the park? I dont know. If anyone is in that area or knows that area or just even has any suggestions, please fill me in. Thanx
    -Matt
     
  2. May 4, 2009 at 7:43 AM
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    You know her better than the rest of us. But hey its your second try, just avoid what ever you did last time. Just messin man. Good Luck.
     
  3. May 4, 2009 at 7:44 AM
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    I may not know much about that area, but i would suggest not over doing it on the romantic stuff. There's a chance she's expecting this to be a friends date. Take her out for a nice dinner as her birthday and just treat her nicely and make her laugh. Hopeyfully by the end of the night she'll be like "wow, he drove me to Chattanooga, bought me dinner, was a gentleman, and we had a great time!" That will impress her.

    Now if its in the pants you're after, can't help ya there man.
     
  4. May 4, 2009 at 7:45 AM
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    lol before we had been like best friends and we decided not to date. But our friendship and died down and thats why im wanting another chance maybe things will work out. I would never be after in her pants. I have way way way to much respect for her that to try something like that right away.
     
  5. May 4, 2009 at 7:55 AM
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  6. May 4, 2009 at 7:57 AM
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    The way I see it, you really only have 2 options here.
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    Disclaimer: Do NOT taking dating advice from me. Or any advice for that matter. :p
     
  7. May 4, 2009 at 8:01 AM
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  8. May 4, 2009 at 8:07 AM
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    Hey matt. Avoid anything romantic at this point and go somewhere FUN! Just try as you can to make her have a good time! Do you have anywhere fun around there like dave and busters?
     
  9. May 4, 2009 at 8:33 AM
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    see if the aquriem is open at night.
     
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    IMO, pizza and a movie! You surprise her with a birthday card. A nice and simple date. You can also learn more about your relationship with her - you can find out if she wants to start dating or does she just wants to be friends?
     
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    do dinner as planned. but i'm from cali so i don't know what's out there...i suggest something out of the ordinary that you would do, maybe a comedy show???

    whatever you do, best of luck Matt, and if she was really into you...being with you and such will be more than enough! :)
     
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    Matt, do the "fun" thing. Dinner, and maybe some playland area with putt-putt or something like that. At the sametime, make sure you treat lt like a DATE... Open car door for her. Dont get wasted drunk. FLOWERS for her birthday for sure.

    Good luck..have fun!!

    Let us know what happens!!
     
  13. May 4, 2009 at 8:47 AM
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    Well, either the no pants attracted Martie, or the chloroform worked. It sure wasn't the oxen drawn Tacoma or the fusion powered civic. In retrospect your one lucky bastard. :D
     
  14. May 4, 2009 at 8:50 AM
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    Biggest thing -- RELAX!! If you're nervous, uptight, or trying too hard you'll get nowhere. Be yourself, don't talk over her, look her in the eyes, and relax.

    People try too hard and it's really unnecessary. Situations and conversations flow naturally if they're allowed to. Pick a restaurant with some kickin' spicy food (GOOD Mexican or just something out of the ordinary) and let things happen.

    Margaritas help too, but that's probably more of a next year thing. :)
     
  15. May 4, 2009 at 8:51 AM
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    I've never argued that point. ;)
     
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  17. May 4, 2009 at 8:57 AM
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    Like the other guys said. Don't do anything to crazy for her. Let her like you for who you are, not where you take her for her bday. Yeah treat her a little bit more special since its her bday but not to much and you will be all right.;)
     
  18. May 4, 2009 at 8:59 AM
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  19. May 4, 2009 at 9:03 AM
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    thanx guys everyone. dinner as planned, and maybe if some fun attraction. we'll see how it goes. To bad I dont have the tacoma anymore that would be an instant heart winner.. lol but she likes the 4runner also
     
  20. May 4, 2009 at 9:05 AM
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    Haha, I don't know man with a 9" kift. You would have to lift her into the truck, which would be a good thing if she wore skirts!!! J/K man!!!:D Have fun, everything will work out.
     
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