How wide is too wide?

Hi my names nick! I got my 2.5 inch lift on front and 1.5 inch lift on rear on my 96 Tacoma done. I got the bilstein 5100 with arb old man emu suspension. I’m looking to get wheels and tires as my 19’ tacoma trd off roads are almost out of life on them. I’ve been doing research and found 33/12.50/r15 tires that look great I want a good stance and wide but not ugly wide. There’s this guy on Instagram nick hailey and he has a red tacoma and I love his stance. But I don’t have as much of a lift as him. So I want to get pro comp series 252 street locks either 15x10 or 15x8. But the only difference is the 15x10 have -44 offset which is hella wide and the 15x8 is -19 offset so if I was going to do a 33/12.50r15 or 32/11.50r15 tire with one of those two options which one would be better and require less trimming with little to no rub and which one is not worth the headache? But still be giving me the stance I want? Please let me know thanks!