1. Welcome to Tacoma World!

    You are currently viewing as a guest! To get full-access, you need to register for a FREE account.

    As a registered member, you’ll be able to:
    • Participate in all Tacoma discussion topics
    • Communicate privately with other Tacoma owners from around the world
    • Post your own photos in our Members Gallery
    • Access all special features of the site

I guess all good things come to an end..

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by Kappes03, Oct 15, 2010.

  1. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:37 AM
    #1
    Kappes03

    Kappes03 [OP] Legend of the UG

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2009
    Member:
    #19187
    Messages:
    6,000
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Mike
    (Colorado)JBLM, WA
    Vehicle:
    2009 Access cab Off-Road
    Check The Build Page
    @sean266 can you delete this thread. Thanks man
     
    Last edited: Jun 24, 2017
  2. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:41 AM
    #2
    hookedontronics

    hookedontronics Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 6, 2010
    Member:
    #28863
    Messages:
    2,780
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Jake
    Glenville, NY
    Vehicle:
    2010 DC Off Road 4x4
    Icon extended travel 3.5" front coilovers, DSM UCAs, TSB leaf pack w/ wheelers AAL, All Pro U-bolt flip kit, Walker Evans 2.0 rear shocks, 18" XD Monster rims, Nitto trail grappler 285/65R18 Tires, Color matched grill, Grillcraft, Kragen HIDs, Carling switches, my bed light mod, diff drop, Alpine IVA-W505, JL Audio C5 componets and coaxials, JL 300/4 and 250/1 amps and JL stealthbox, wheathertechs, avs vent visors, toyota bed x-tender, alcantara center console cover and door pocket covers, console vault, color matched mirrors, heated mirrors, etc etc etc
    go lay some pipe, you'll fel better
     
  3. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:43 AM
    #3
    ColtsTRD

    ColtsTRD .....

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Member:
    #17177
    Messages:
    17,803
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Scott
    AZ
    Vehicle:
    2005 TRD DCSB
    That shits rough man, I'm sorry to hear this. It sounds like you 2 are better off apart. It just doesn't feel that way because you've been together a while....time heals all wounds man...you'll be okay
     
  4. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:44 AM
    #4
    rbeezy

    rbeezy Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 15, 2010
    Member:
    #43325
    Messages:
    3,327
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Ron
    Bay Area
    Vehicle:
    2011 Tacoma SR5
    on a positive note, at least now you'll have more money to spend on the truck
     
  5. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:45 AM
    #5
    ColtsTRD

    ColtsTRD .....

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Member:
    #17177
    Messages:
    17,803
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Scott
    AZ
    Vehicle:
    2005 TRD DCSB
    :laughing:
     
  6. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:47 AM
    #6
    Seabass

    Seabass Chrome won't get you home

    Joined:
    Apr 2, 2010
    Member:
    #34455
    Messages:
    6,971
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Adam
    AZ
    Vehicle:
    '06 Sport 4x4
    Let's be honest... you really only care about your own rig.
    Put your nuts back on and go get some new poon. Nothing wrong with being a little selfish at 24 years old. Live life a little.. plenty of time to settle down later. If you're having doubts now, you just did yourself a favor instead of finding out after you got married. My rule - spend at least 3 years together (preferably living together) before you marry.
     
  7. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:55 AM
    #7
    DeeKay21

    DeeKay21 Lieutenant Dan.

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2008
    Member:
    #10651
    Messages:
    14,185
    Gender:
    Male
    Nevada/Utah
    Vehicle:
    06' TRD Sport 4x4
    Sorry to hear the news. Maybe some time apart will help you sort some stuff out. You might even want to get back with her. You know what they say....time makes the heart grow fonder.:cool: But this will be a good experience in the long run and I hope you learn a lot from it. Good luck, I've been there, trust me.
     
  8. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:55 AM
    #8
    aficianado

    aficianado Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Oct 27, 2009
    Member:
    #25015
    Messages:
    5,610
    Gender:
    Male
    bay area, california
    Vehicle:
    2006 access cab. 4x4, TRD-OR
    back to bone stock.
    24 years old? i promise..every new chick gets better and better. you grow and develope what you like and dislike in a girlfriend. it is natural.

    i love a woman that i can drop into a crowded party, and she can hang with strangers. it creates balance. i dont want one that depends on me for social strength. no balance. puts the odds too much in my favor. i would get bored.
     
  9. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:56 AM
    #9
    ColtsTRD

    ColtsTRD .....

    Joined:
    May 13, 2009
    Member:
    #17177
    Messages:
    17,803
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Scott
    AZ
    Vehicle:
    2005 TRD DCSB
    agreed :)
     
  10. Oct 15, 2010 at 10:58 AM
    #10
    blackhawke88

    blackhawke88 wo ai ni bao bei ^_^

    Joined:
    Jan 11, 2009
    Member:
    #12478
    Messages:
    16,660
    Gender:
    Male
    SGV, CA
    Vehicle:
    07 TRD Offroad
    delete her off ur phone, facebook and delete/remove anything that can remind u of her...unless u still want to be friends, which will hurt her more than u know it
     
  11. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:01 AM
    #11
    aficianado

    aficianado Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Oct 27, 2009
    Member:
    #25015
    Messages:
    5,610
    Gender:
    Male
    bay area, california
    Vehicle:
    2006 access cab. 4x4, TRD-OR
    back to bone stock.
    keep in mind. all the above advice is no good if you are really ugly and have no game ;)
     
  12. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:01 AM
    #12
    blackhawke88

    blackhawke88 wo ai ni bao bei ^_^

    Joined:
    Jan 11, 2009
    Member:
    #12478
    Messages:
    16,660
    Gender:
    Male
    SGV, CA
    Vehicle:
    07 TRD Offroad
    ^ lol! in which case u fucked up by breaking up with her
     
  13. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:02 AM
    #13
    mj918

    mj918 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 2, 2010
    Member:
    #42657
    Messages:
    539
    Gender:
    Female
    First Name:
    Meg
    Wyoming
    Vehicle:
    2012 TRD Off Road Sliver
    3" Toytec Ulitmate Lift 285/70 Wrangler Duracturs 17" American Racing wheels TRD SUPERCHARGER!!! :) TRD Catback to come . . .
    Thats too bad. From a girls point a view :) I think you should just take some time apart. Two years is a long time to just end it. You might actually really like the fact your girl isnt way out going, for example. Usually if a girl is super friendly, it can come off as flirting to her guy. Just saying . . .
     
  14. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:04 AM
    #14
    Kappes03

    Kappes03 [OP] Legend of the UG

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2009
    Member:
    #19187
    Messages:
    6,000
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Mike
    (Colorado)JBLM, WA
    Vehicle:
    2009 Access cab Off-Road
    Check The Build Page
    Thanks guys. Time will only tell. She even said we can't be friends which I understand
     
  15. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:06 AM
    #15
    Kappes03

    Kappes03 [OP] Legend of the UG

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2009
    Member:
    #19187
    Messages:
    6,000
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Mike
    (Colorado)JBLM, WA
    Vehicle:
    2009 Access cab Off-Road
    Check The Build Page
    Yea I'm also hideous. Guess I'm fucked :(
     
  16. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:11 AM
    #16
    krimson

    krimson Nothin

    Joined:
    May 17, 2008
    Member:
    #6714
    Messages:
    3,405
    Vehicle:
    TRD Off Road
    OME 3" lift with 885 coils. OME Shocks with TSB 1.5 AAL. 285/75/16 KM2s. XD Hoss 16" wheels. DDM Tuning 6000K HIDs, H10 6000K Fogs. BHLM. Debaged. 20% tint on front windows.
    Then at that point don't even attempt to try to contact her. Delete her off your phone/Facebook etc, just leave her alone and forget her. If she really cares she will attempt to contact you, just give it time don't try to rush these kind of things.... That only makes it worse.
     
  17. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:26 AM
    #17
    05offroad

    05offroad Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 25, 2010
    Member:
    #30014
    Messages:
    1,039
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Michael
    El Cajon, California
    Vehicle:
    '05 Long Travel Prerunner
    I've lost track
    Dude I am going through the same shit. Almost two years...girl is totally shy, and gets mad/sad when i hangout with my friends. MY best advice for the breakup..

    Like everyone said delete her completely. On facebook I even blocked her so its like I dont exist. Dont have to worry about them messaging you or lurking around looking at your new stuff. And another thing is find a new hobby, or get involved in an old one. Do anything to keep your mind off of it. Hangout with close friends. And find someone who you can talk to anytime. thats what I'm doing. And it still hurts but it always will.


    Oh and like someone said....LAY SOME PIPE!!!
     
  18. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:27 AM
    #18
    BakoTruck

    BakoTruck Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 1, 2009
    Member:
    #16674
    Messages:
    2,820
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Herbie Hancock
    Bakersfield, CA
    Vehicle:
    05 PreRunner TRD
    Mostly stock for now, I have added a cb radio, various cheap mods and I plan on adding aftermarket wheels and other items in the future.
    Best advice on here.
     
  19. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:30 AM
    #19
    blackhawke88

    blackhawke88 wo ai ni bao bei ^_^

    Joined:
    Jan 11, 2009
    Member:
    #12478
    Messages:
    16,660
    Gender:
    Male
    SGV, CA
    Vehicle:
    07 TRD Offroad
    although I agree with this advice, the good feeling is only temporary, and when you're laying in bed alone again, she'll pop right back in ur mind. I still think about all my ex's, and i find it's easier to become friends with them down the road than to completely alienate them. But for now deleting her from your life will help out a lot.

    Drinking heavily wont really help out that well either because u'll do dumb shit when ur heart broken and drunk and feel even shittier with ur missing her and hung over.
     
  20. Oct 15, 2010 at 11:31 AM
    #20
    CopDoctor

    CopDoctor Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2010
    Member:
    #30474
    Messages:
    1,863
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Matt
    Colorado Springs, CO
    Vehicle:
    08 335i
    BMS Intake, JB4 chip, Plastidip everywhere
    sucks to hear Mike, things will get better. I'll see you in a few weeks and i'll bring some feel better juice especially for you.
     
To Top