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I need your prayers......BAD!

Discussion in 'Prayers & Support' started by badguybuster, Jul 9, 2009.

  1. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:29 PM
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    badguybuster

    badguybuster [OP] Well-Known Member

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    I am about to ask my wife for a separation. It is going to go over REALLY badly. Prayers please. We've been married since 1997 but been together since 1994. Help!!
     
  2. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:29 PM
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    JimBeam

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    good luck to you


    are you sure this is the step you have to take?
     
  3. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:32 PM
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    ImpulseRed008

    ImpulseRed008 Gone But Not Forgotten

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    So sorry to hear that. It sucks all the way around (yes, been there, done that).

    Good luck to what you decide :pray: and do.

    Have you guys tried counseling?
     
  4. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:36 PM
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    luk8272

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    Huge step. Tread lightly. Best wishes.
     
  5. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:37 PM
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    usctacoma

    usctacoma Be a thinker, not a stinker

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    Wow thats a big step. Wish I could help somehow, but all I can do is say Good Luck.
     
  6. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:37 PM
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    DeeKay21

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    Sorry to hear that brother. Mind if I ask what is going on between you two?:eek:
     
  7. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:40 PM
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    good luck bro
     
  8. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:41 PM
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    Incognito

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    Hey man, I'll pray for you. I went through the same thing, so I know what it feels like. Don't let anything get you down. :)
     
  9. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:43 PM
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    badguybuster

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    Well, I was just telling chris4x4 that she is a good wife BUT I am a wretched husband. Plus, (this makes me sound awful), I want children and we found out a few months back that she can't have any. (I know, I know). That is just the tip of the iceburg, so to speak. We just no longer have anything in common, we really don't have any similar interests. I figure why drag it out until we hate each other. You guys are great though, I appreciate the heart felt remarks.
     
  10. Jul 9, 2009 at 6:48 PM
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    DeeKay21

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    Sorry to hear that brother. But if its really what you think is going to make it better, do what you got to do.:eek:
     
  11. Jul 9, 2009 at 9:36 PM
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    neontrail

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    Dang man, sorry to hear this. I hope in the end you are happy! You will be in my thoughts...
     
  12. Jul 9, 2009 at 9:39 PM
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    thats always a bad subject and im sorry about everything u have to go through
     
  13. Jul 9, 2009 at 9:46 PM
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    carmellocafe

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    Prayers sent to both of you... Stay close to your friends. Talking about what you're going through helps.:(
     
  14. Jul 9, 2009 at 10:03 PM
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    -Best of wishes to you both bud, I think your heart is def. in the right place. The heart wants what the heart wants...like you said, it's better to end it now as friends than to drag it out and hate each other :( Good luck bro :pray:
     
  15. Jul 9, 2009 at 10:34 PM
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    "For better or worse?" Are you sure this is what you want to do?
     
  16. Jul 9, 2009 at 11:05 PM
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    RelentlessFab

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    sounds like you've reached the answer to a tough decision, but it seems to be one you believe best to take. goodluck with it all.
     
  17. Jul 9, 2009 at 11:09 PM
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    MiikeyD

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    those cant be the only reason, why did you guys get married in the first place? go back to that and ask yourself first before you make another LIFE CHANGING decision.
     
  18. Jul 10, 2009 at 1:05 AM
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    tacoholic

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    I agree with Miikey, just be absolutely sure this is what you want to do before you do it.

    Good luck with whatever you do. :pray:
     
  19. Jul 10, 2009 at 1:19 AM
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    That's a crappy situation, and am sorry to hear that, I do however hope everything will turn out well, whatever the outcome is. Not to instigate anything but is adoption out of the question?
     
  20. Jul 10, 2009 at 1:28 AM
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    just make sure you think about what you are going to say before you tell her your decision, if you have time to think, think about those 15+ years you've spent with her and just because of some issues, dont make those the reasons why you ended the relationship.
    remember that thats 15+ years of life your throwing away if you do seperate
     
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