I Swear I'm Trying

I've been pouring over this section for 3 days now looking over the stickies, reading posts, rereading stickies, reading the links, trying the calculator and so on but I appear to be completely dense when it comes to wheel and tire fitting.

I hate to have to ask because I know how hated the question "will this fit" is so instead how about, "What works?"

I have a manual '12 V6 4X4 access cab Taco that will be getting a 3" lift soon. I intend to put BFG AT/TA KO 285/75R16s on it but I would like a set of simple, plain black steel rims. Every time i think I've found a good set, the offset is off, or the backspacing is off. So I ask the experienced folks to forgive me on this one and if you happen to have a setup that includes cheap steel 16" wheels and 285/75s, please just let me know here or shoot me a PM.

This is the only thing I've found that "might" work but honestly my brain is fried now from trying to understand it all so I could be missing something completely obvious.
http://www.4wheelparts.com/Wheels/5..._pt=100021&t_pl=100347&t_pn=PCW52-6883S5.25M#

 

Those Pro Comp wheels will rub the caliper without wheel spacers.

4.5" backspacing seems to be the sweet spot for 285's. Try these, 16x8 "Type A" (4.5" backspacing):

 

Thank you so much. That is exactly what i was looking for.