Just another relationship rant...

Krazie FTW!

 

Sorry about your problem I don't know how you could put up with supporting someone for that long. I understand everyone gets in a rut but dang sounds like you're one of a kind for putting up with that.

 

I thought you were talking about a man too.

 

x2. You don't deserve an idiot like that. From the sounds of it you are a very caring person. Don't you want a guy who will care for you as much as you care for him? You deserve a great guy, and if he's the right one, he'll know how special you are. I agree throw him out. Having him in the same house won't help you over him. He is a bum. Let him go.

 

i think its nice to help someone out, but you need something in return. where i come from, ladies DO NOT support the dudes. its cool to support each other. i would be embarresed if the lady took cae of me. guess people are raised differently. you need to take it easy for awhile and let the other one find you. your the one who needs to be appreciated. imo. good luck!

 

that too!

 

trjyjtyj

 

Best advice I've seen in a while....

 

Just kick that motherfucker out. Whatever he does is his business, whether its moving in with someone else or being homeless, let him deal with his new hand. You got a place and your life straight. Kick his ass out, go out with friends, hit up a bar, take home some ass for a quick rebound, then start living your life. Life is gonna be awesome now that you got rid of a bum.

 

Look at my username!

haha jk, seriously though VVV, ya it might be a bit out of your age range, but it helped me out in a way. I must have listened to it at least 200 times the first week after she was outta my life.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XleOkGsYgO8?fs=1

 

Ill be your friend =] you should pm me I've been through the same stuff

 

Damn that really sucks sorry it happened and don't really know what to say about any of it just all around sucks.

 

reading this thread here
http://www.tacomaworld.com/forum/green-room/92616-i-just-need-rant-2.html
and now with your current situation

Did you TOSS the SOB OUT Yet !
if not do it and get on with your life

there is a guy out there just waiting for you

 

How old is this guy? sounds like a typical high school breakup. leaving you for himself......Bull Shit. seems like its definitely a type of thing where he found a new toy and when he's tired of that he'll go back to you. As it's been said before, it seems like you're making excuses for him. This guy clearly isn't a man so you're wasting your time. I absolutely refuse to have my gf pay for anything for me unless we're on a trip and she wants to pay for my lunch or something. He had a roof over his head and im sure a warm meal because of you. Moral of the story....dont waste your time with him, find an adult because thats what you need. GL

 

Sorry that really sucks. The I'm leaving you for me sounds like total bs. You are a nice person for letting him stay w/you. I hope you can move on quickly and put this all behind you. Time heals all wounds, shitty saying but is true...

 

First I havento blame you for letting him live off you for free.your both grown ups.if I was you I would be pissed if he was banging some dude behind your back.cheating is wrong but the chance of catching an STD from dude to dude I assume is higher.throw his ass out on the street.fuck being nice.it doesn't pay to be nice to that loser.it does suck to waste 5 years but at least you don't have kids with that DICKHEAD

EDIT: I thought he was gay LMAO. that's what I get for speed reading on my phone while at work. I is stupid

 

So... what do YOU look like? I'm all for a lady to support me... then I can get the fuck out of the middle east...

 

^^^ This. No self respecting man lives off his girl and doesn't contribute anything. Sounds like a loser that you're better off without. I know plenty of dudes (including myself) that find independent ladies extremely attractive. You have your own house at 27 and legally single? Damn. You will have no trouble at all.

 

Everything happens for a reason. Atleast you are a girl on a site full of awesome guys. It's harder for us to find lovin than it is for you.

Plus you have a Tacoma so you still win.

 

^^^^This. One thing that I definitely consider when contemplating if a chick is relationship material, is her financial situation. Im not saying she has to be rich- i dont care about how much money a woman has- but if she cant handle her money properly/cant support herself financially, I stay away. On the flip side, finding a woman who can support herself financially and is fiscally responsible is a huge plus, as it suggests that money wont be an issue if something serious develops.

I know I'm not the only one who thinks like this. I guarentee you that you will not have trouble finding another man (assuming youre not hideous or obese or something).