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Let Wife Pick Her Own Car?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by jeremy_283, Jan 26, 2012.

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Do I Let My Wife Pick Her Own Car?..... Lol

Poll closed Feb 25, 2012.
  1. Yes

    105 vote(s)
    66.0%
  2. No

    54 vote(s)
    34.0%
  1. Jan 27, 2012 at 4:11 AM
    #61
    T@co_Pr3runn3r

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    Yes, this is part of my equation too....just no color I can't drive around in too because when we go somewhere in her car I have to drive.
     
  2. Jan 27, 2012 at 4:40 AM
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    You need to talk to her about it....Not us.
    Your title seems to indicate that you are going to decide what she gets...Not that you want to make a decision with her...And I can't see option A going well for you. If you've got good reasons and she's open to both...Work with her on it. Show her after market options...Repair costs...etc. But talk with her and go from there.
     
  3. Jan 27, 2012 at 4:45 AM
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    Pick up an issue of Consumer Reports and show the reviews, your wife will be the one spending time at the dealer service department.
     
  4. Jan 27, 2012 at 9:33 AM
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    jeremy_283

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    How do I get a full comparison of the two vehicles for her to review? Like side-by-side ratings?
     
  5. Jan 27, 2012 at 9:40 AM
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    JDMcQ

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    The chances of finding side-by-side ratings on these two vehicles might be tough as they are not in the same vehicle class. sites like edmunds.com might allow side-by-side feature comparisons though.
     
  6. Jan 27, 2012 at 9:46 AM
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    jeremy_283

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    On the attached PDF it had the option to compare (check boxes) but I obviously can't do that since it's not active online. I cant find it on the consumer reports website either.
     
  7. Jan 27, 2012 at 9:47 AM
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    I have a subscription to CR online. That is how I got the ratings.
     
  8. Jan 27, 2012 at 9:56 AM
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    jeremy_283

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    Oh I see, too expensive... lol :)
     
  9. Jan 27, 2012 at 10:01 AM
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    JDMcQ

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    Edmunds is free and I just checked, you can do side by side comparisons.
     
  10. Jan 27, 2012 at 10:06 AM
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    jeremy_283

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    pretty much just the specs though :eek:
     
  11. Jan 27, 2012 at 10:09 AM
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    Happy Wife=Happy Life:)

    Just speaking from 10 years of experience

    Please see example
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    That is not my Volvo in the garage
     
  12. Jan 27, 2012 at 10:10 AM
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    I worked at Home Depot for 3 years and never understood this. Why do guys send their wives to home improvement places to get stuff like lumber? Where's the fun in being a man if you don't get to go pick out your own 2X4's and load them into your truck all on your own? :rolleyes:

    Some of the wives that were sent in were pretty darn hot too though. So if you want to send them in and be at the mercy of us lumber associates, you go right ahead. ;)
     
  13. Jan 27, 2012 at 10:15 AM
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    You are killing me. See attached. ;)
     

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  14. Jan 27, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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    :yay:
     
  15. Jan 27, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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  16. Jan 27, 2012 at 10:25 AM
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    Oh wait, the 2012 models were revamped... :eek: so 2011 is not entirely accurate. But it'll work :D I'll just tell her to expect even better ratings out of the 2012 :woot:
     
  17. Jan 27, 2012 at 2:10 PM
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    I have a 24 mile commute (one way) to work...she doesn't...I like a vehicle that doesn't corner like a rhino and can be parked in normal spots....and mines 4x4 ;-)
     
  18. Jan 28, 2012 at 7:40 AM
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    Couldn't agree more. I can spend all day there. The local Depot is like my toy store and candy store all rolled up into one. And yes, I wonder about the "lifestyle choice" of men who don't feel the same ;) (Just kidding. Kind of. Just a little.)

    The only reason I bring the woman there is to pick out paint colors and stuff. (Seriously, dudes sending their women to pick up lumber? WTF? And what, do these guys do the tampon shopping?) Same goes for cars. Normally I do all the research and narrow it down to a couple choices, she goes with to look at stuff I don't notice: colors, placement of vanity mirror, etc. :D Then "we" decide. BUT, as the OP noted, she seems to already have made up her mind. And once that happens, any continued discussion will be a losing battle for him. I haven't hit that particular relationship brick wall picking out cars (yet) but it has happened in other arenas.

    Tread lightly, my friend.
     
  19. Jan 28, 2012 at 7:44 AM
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    Uh, you gotta ask? You must've just gotten married.
     
  20. Jan 28, 2012 at 7:45 AM
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