LIFT HELP

I drive a 2013 Toyota Tacoma 4x4

My Wife bought me a 3" rough country suspension lift for christmas last year.
It sat in my office until recently when I decided to buy Wheels and Tires.
I bought 285/70 fierce attitudes on 17"x9" wheels with a 0 offset.

When I installed the lift and backed it out of my garage the lift barely rubbed and I was able to correct that very easily with minor plastic trimming.
Fast forward 2k miles and the damn thing rubs like crazy.

My goal is to replace the whole lift, front first then the back. I need to stay under 500 for the front. My first question is will bilstein 5100s with Eibach springs achieve the lift that I originally got with this POS rough country set up.

second question is where can I buy these at, and which ones to get?

Thanks