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Lost my brother

Discussion in 'Prayers & Support' started by jake72, Dec 7, 2018.

  1. Dec 7, 2018 at 7:00 PM
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    jake72

    jake72 [OP] Well-Known Member

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    Lost many family members over the years and this one is the hardest. Lost a father a few years ago to old age, I can handle that. Lost an older half brother that was murdered over 20 years ago, that was hard to deal with. Lost 2 of my best friends while riding atvs at the age of 14, that was and still is hard at times. I didn’t think anything could get anymore painful in the way we lose a loved one that is close to you. I have been proven wrong, what could be harder than all of this you might ask. Losing a great brother by Suicide. I learnt to deal with the others over the years, but this one will be a challenge like no other. The thoughts that go through your head are like no other. I learnt one thing at a young age, and that is to live today to the fullest, because there might not be a tomorrow.
     
  2. Dec 7, 2018 at 7:04 PM
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    raskal311

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    Wow I’m sorry to hear of your lost, that’s really tough I can’t even imagine the pain you are going through.
     
  3. Dec 7, 2018 at 7:05 PM
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    PvilleJohn

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    Sorry for you loss buddy. I have not been in that situation so I dont want to go offering advice on something I have no experience in but I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you find a way to get through the hard times.
     
  4. Dec 7, 2018 at 7:09 PM
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    HardShellTacoma

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    :( No words. Please make sure you reach out for help when you’re ready.
     
  5. Dec 7, 2018 at 7:12 PM
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    TRDOBSESSED

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    Thinking of you man and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers ...please remember , in a way you have many brothers here
     
  6. Dec 7, 2018 at 8:00 PM
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    jake72

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    Thanks for the support, death is never easy no matter how. I just wish anyone thinking of doing it this way, they could ask for help. I know thinking about it, maybe they don’t have a choice and it was meant to be. He was as normal and healthy as could be. Hopefully none of you will ever have to face this. I will say one thing, life is full of mysteries and surprises good or bad God bless
     
  7. Dec 7, 2018 at 8:04 PM
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    JaCado

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    Sorry for your loss.:(
     
  8. Dec 7, 2018 at 8:04 PM
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    zero4

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    Damn, sorry to hear that & for your losses. God bless.
     
  9. Dec 7, 2018 at 8:09 PM
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    NAAC3TACO

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    I’m so sorry. Some how, some way try to hang in there.
     
  10. Dec 7, 2018 at 8:37 PM
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    RevIza

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    So sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.

    Very wise words. Thank you and God bless you as well.
     
  11. Dec 7, 2018 at 8:40 PM
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    Steves104x4

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    BUCKLE UP! It makes it harder for Aliens to pull you out of your Truck.
    I’m sorry, Jake
     
  12. Feb 5, 2019 at 6:11 PM
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    specter208

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    God bless you friend. I've said a prayer you.
     
  13. Feb 5, 2019 at 6:15 PM
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    tacomgee

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    I know those feels well. Lost my younger brother at 21. He was 19. Some things just don’t make sense.
    It will never be easy, but it will get easier.


    :pray: :pray:
     

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