marriage B.S

Been a study and a huge percentage of married couples on facebook get divorced. I dont have one and dont want one. i have a myspace, but I dont really use that unless i listen to music at work.

 

Hate to say this but you mite need to check her phone! If you ant cheating she mite be! Or she could just be really insecure my buddys girl is like that he is leaving her soon!

 

Is this a huge percentage of couples qualified in any way?? Ages, compared to the normal divorce rate in the country or a specific demographic??
Link to the study??

 

I was doubting this one too. Is Facebook the problem or is it a symptom. I'd guess FB itself causes little or no divorces. I would argue those that are going to cheat are just more likely to troll FB.

It's like the example that as ice cream sales increase, so does the murder rate. Is it ice cream's fault? No, it's the heat. People get pissed off when it's hot as fuck.

 

True that. Probably shouldnt be adding girls on there that you don't know.

 

I don't care who you are....but you gotta get that shit off your chest.

It's called COMMUNICATION and you gotta sit down and talk it out with her.
NOT WITH US...... with her!!!

 

While you are correct, there is nothing wrong with seeking advice from OTHERS before he COMMUNICATES with her.

 

sounds like she's got some insecurity issues that need to be addressed...you have to kill her man...its the only way

But all joking aside, my girl did that for a while and then stopped...I think its a phase or something

 

This is why you never get married kids.

 

welcome to my world.

 

I think that's why we all work on our trucks... preferably at other peoples homes. So does that mean that those Tacomians with the fixed up taco got major marital issues? Who knows.

 

Maybe we could all call and text her cell phone and you could 'discover' the calls. Then you confront her demanding to know why does she have all these numbers from all over the country. A little turning the tables Or maybe thats too much fuel on the fire.

 

Definitely let her know that this is bothering you and it is beginning to affect your relationship. Clearly, this is not normal behavior by most peoples standards. You may need to seek professional help. Do it soon though, before things progress any further.

 

who knows....and i just head to my garage...crank the music...crack some beers and relax.

 

For sure talk to her about it. I went through this a few years back. My wife was accusing me of cheating. I worked 2nd shift at work, and sometimes didn't get home until 2. I cam to find out, this gave her lots of time to chat online with other guys. I was off making money to support life, and not paying her enough attention. That didn't work for her. While she was accusing me, she was the in the act. This sucks more than anything, but you should get to the bottom of it. Be as open and honest as you can to get it resolved. Mine ended in an ugly divorce.

 

That may be the problem right there. Many marriages don't make it when coming out of High School. I would just seriously have a talk with her about trust issues. If this does not work, maybe counseling?

Good luck!

 

Damn, sorry bout that bro.

 

Thanks to everyone that has pitched in.

Im not a very angry person, and usually just take things in stride.

If we have our arguments, ill usually just leave so i dont blow up on her.

I just dont see this getting any better...shes been doing it for a while now.

and has yet to find anything....i have nothing to hide

 

Avoidance is a technique- but it only works for so long...then every little thing becomes a fuse.

 

LMFAO! just as JDKeller stated...
myspace/FB destroys relationships! yeah i've got myspace my fiance used to now she's on FB! i aint bout to head that way cuz it really does trigger little arguments here and there.... YES about the random cute chicks on there! lol! good luck man, Communication is the way. me and my girl are doin better. just takes time we dont change over-nite. baby-steps for her bro!