Mid-travel suspension setup

I had a couple questions, and was also looking for advice for a decent mid-travel setup. So far, what I have found is;

Front Shocks -
Icon 2.5 Ext Travel RR Coilovers - $1600/Pair (DSM)
ADS 2.5 Ext Travel RR Coilovers - $1600/Pair (MCM Fab website)
Sway-a-way 2.5 non RR Coilovers - $1200/Pair (aFe-power website)

UCA -
MCM Fab Uniball UCA - $675 (MCM Fab website)

Rear Shocks -
Icon 2.0 RR Aluminum shocks (Bushing mounts) - $530/Pair (DSM)
ADS 2.5 Rear w/ Clicker 10” Travel - $1600/Pair (ADS website)
Radflo 2.5 Smooth body RR 12” Travel - $450/Ea (Radflo website)

Rear Leaf Pack Kit -
Allpro Rear Suspension Kit (Leaf packs, Bushings and sleeves, Shock mounts, Extended brake line, Rear flip kit) - $681 (Allpro Off-road website)

And I was wondering what would be a good combo for a mid travel setup. These were the combos I was thinking;
Icon fronts and rear (Since Icon rears are bushing mount, will they work with a shock relocation?) - $3486
ADS front & rear - $4556
Sway-a-way front Radflo rear - $3456

Was looking for a semi-budget-friendly setup, that I could mess with and tune myself, learn some new skills. A bit of all around stuff, Daily driver, gravel/fire roads, desert, and some trails/rock crawling, decent flex. Tube front w/ winch, sliders, bed rack, skid plates, rear bumper, and towing a RTT trailer frequently. 265-285/75r16 on SCS F5 16x8 w/ 3.5" BS.

Thx.

 

Safe to assume you have an 05+ Tacoma?
When you say tune yourself, are you talking about valving?

 

Oh, sorry. Looking for a 1st gen, extended cab 4x4 V6 Auto. Yeah, valving, ect.