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need relationship advice

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by vtragweed, Nov 17, 2011.

  1. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:18 PM
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    vtragweed

    vtragweed [OP] Beef Slut

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    my girl and i broke up about 2 months ago. after about 3 years together she decided to call it quits and no she isnt banging someone else. she really hasnt contacted me for the past 2 months, except about 3 weeks ago to stay the night with her. so now i need to figure out how to get her back, any advice?
     
  2. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:25 PM
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    Zombie Runner

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  3. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:27 PM
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    fireturk41

    fireturk41 I like to break shit!

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    get over her, pick up a hobby, i broke up with my girlfriend of over 1.5 years for various reasons and in my getting over people process i travelled and started getting back into shape, infact im thinking bout picking up juijitsu and boxing again
     
  4. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:27 PM
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    300rem7

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    Sounds to me like she was just checking herself to make sure she made the correct decision and that the feelings were really gone. You could talk to her but sounds like she is done. FWIW.
     
  5. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:29 PM
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    Pugga

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    Remember, you guys broke up for a reason and people do not change. Your one night 3 weeks ago was a weak moment for both of you, best to pick up the pieces and move on.
     
  6. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:30 PM
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    fireturk41

    fireturk41 I like to break shit!

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  7. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:35 PM
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    TurboGT

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    So as someone so nicely put it in my thread....

    Go find another machine to stick your dollar in.

    and like everyone else said, seems like she's done with it - pick your head up, move on
     
  8. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:36 PM
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    vtragweed

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    damnit i kinda wanted to marry this one too
     
  9. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:36 PM
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    Bad news...you're not getting her back.....been there.

    And just from my personal experience....I said my ex gf wasn't banging anyone either.....boy was I wrooooooong!!!!!!

    Been through quite a few since that one though.....it's alllllll good!!! :D
     
  10. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:39 PM
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    well shes still fucking me
     
  11. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:40 PM
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    paintdiddy

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    Asking us is like putting the last nail in the coffin. :D just move. You can tell her how you feels. Whats the worst she can say?no or die laughing in your face or with her friends. Take your balls,pride and respect an walk away
     
  12. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:41 PM
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    An old professor once told me... girlfriends are like dogs. When one dies or runs away, just go find a new one :D
     
  13. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:41 PM
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    jjew18

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    ^Yup

    A weak moment and her being able to have you when she wants, you have to say no if this were to happen again, but you can't wait and anticipate that it will happen again so you have to keep living your life and move on. She may realize she truly wants you back, but you have to be strong enough to say no until she convinces you that it is not just another night of weakness/having her cake and eating it too.
     
  14. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:41 PM
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    JimBeam

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    Don't even pretend to tell yourself that that's gonna stop her from going out and fucking someone else if she wants to
     
  15. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:41 PM
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    Shit....that had to be the best college professor....EVER!!!! :cool:
    Best friggin advice ever....that should teach that shit in grade school.
     
  16. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:43 PM
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    or on her
     
  17. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:43 PM
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    jjew18

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    Its irrelevant, you are not with her right now. If she is with someone else at least she had the decency to dump you first. As you and her grow you both change as people and what you want in people, and if you have been together through those changes she may be another person by now (you may be as well).
     
  18. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:43 PM
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    Like my dad always said....if you just had sex with another woman....a woman can tell. If a woman just had sex with another guy....you'll never ever know.
     
  19. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:44 PM
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    Tigahshark

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    How do you know she wasn't or isn't banging anyone body else? you said you haven't spoken with her in a while, dont mean to be harsh especially since i can tell you still have feeling for her OR still love her. I know that you will do what you wanna do no matter what people on here say or tell you, but just "try" and heed our advice and experience. Sounds like shes over you bro, get plenty chics out there man PLENTY, find yourself another one
     
  20. Nov 17, 2011 at 2:44 PM
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    jjew18 the Nightman cometh!

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    Not totally true.
     
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