Nightmare coming true

hang in there OP. Did all this happen out of the blue?

 

Good man, it really is 'one day at a time' right now, just handle your business and take each day as it comes, a lot of this you can no longer control so don't try to get answers to everything. Maybe she just needs a break, maybe not, it doesn't really matter at this point. It hurts like hell and you want answers but don't focus on that, just handle your business and keep in contact with the kids. Stay positive on the phone to them, don't talk bad or talk trash, I'm sure you know that. It's gonna take a while for things to settle out. Don't make any big moves yet unless you absolutely have to.
Don't think about divorce and custody and stuff like that just yet, hopefully if you two remain civil you can avoid all that with nothing more than a perfunctory judgement, but that's later on. The point where I drew the line was when my ex refused to let me see my son, then my hand was forced and I had to file. Be civil until you have absolutely no other choice but to be something else. I know i'm getting ahead of myself here but I just want to set some mental framework to apply some logic to an illogical situation.
My offer still stands brother, anytime you want to talk man

 

I am very glad to hear you are keeping a positive attitude, it makes the world of a difference and will help you in your journey!

 

man-o-man!! this is a tough situation..best of luck to all parties. hope it goes smooth.

out of the blue? left you penny-less? damn.

 

Sorry to hear about your mess, brother I'm not going to pretend I know what you're going through, but it could happen to any of us. Hang in there-prayer sent.

 

I don't know you but, I know what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers go out for you. You alone, are your own worst enemy in times like this. Stay busy, and stay level headed. This too shall pass.....

 

dude, I'm super sorry to hear that man. I'm sure there's plenty other people here that are willing to help but if you ever need to talk about it I'm totally here for you man. We're all here for you!

 

That sucks. IMO, based on those actions, I'd ask an attorney to advise you of your rights. You deserve a chance. You aren't getting it.

 

Glad to know you kinda have an idea of what's going on now.

On a brighter note, it looks like you're in high spirits.

 

Glad to hear you're doing better, OP. Keep your chin up and everything will work out. Stay strong!

 

Sounds like you're taking in everything pretty well. That's good. Continue trying to stay busy and clear headed. Try and not do what most will in a situation like this and get drunk. Doing so will will make you do/say/text stupid things. Good luck.

 

Wow, that's F'ed up! Sorry to hear that, I'm sure I would be lost too.
I really dont even know what to say.


Edit- read the update, good to hear things are a little better today

 

She reached her "limit" and this is how she handled it?

Good riddance. I hate it for you and your kids, but honestly judging by this behavior you're better off now.

 

hope all works out for you
good luck stay strong ny stylz

 

I'm for hire.

 

Keep your head up man, sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do. There are better ways to handle things if she was indeed unhappy. Enjoy the loaner Tundy and talk to a lawyer, there is no way your kids should suffer because your wife is unhappy. Tell her to put her big girl pants on and deal with the situation!

 

x3. What a terrible situation to be in... I'm feelin' for ya. Just be strong, and try not to do anything irrational. We're rooting for ya. Hope everything turns out okay. Try not to go get drunk like we all try to do in times like this- getting drunk may lead to stupid decisions like making bad phone calls/texts to her, etc. My boss is going through the same thing right now, and that's what f*cked him up.

 

Any update geoff? Hope you are doing well and hope things work out man.

 

Ditto man, been thinkin about you brother, hope you're too busy to think and doin OK