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Discussion in 'Personal & Emotional Support' started by bridgcat, Apr 17, 2011.

  1. Apr 17, 2011 at 12:45 PM
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    bridgcat

    bridgcat [OP] Well-Known Member

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    Guys,
    Well...my wife and I are getting a ittle hopless and everything going on around us is making it worse. We have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years now with no luck at all. We have seen so many doctors it's impossible to remember them all. It's a little depressing. Now to make things harder my best friend and his wife are pregnant (unexpected) and while I am very VERY excited and happy for them it's hard not to feel bad for myself. My brother and his wife just had their first and it took them two months to concieve...again, very happy and I love my nephew, but hard not to get a little down. Today I find out that two close frinds of mine have just found out their wifes are pregnant (one of which has a 9 month old boy). We are all a very close group and hang out all the time when I am on my days off back home. My wife and I are now the odd couple with no children and no luck of having any. Don't get me wrong, like I said, I am very excited and happy for them but my wife and I are starting to lose hope. I have a great job that affords us an amazing life and we just want to bring a life into this world and love it with everything we have....we want a complete family. Please pray for our situation and pray that good things come. Thanks for the help guys!
     
  2. Apr 17, 2011 at 1:29 PM
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    unentered

    unentered Son of Baconator

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    That's always a tough one...

    Seems some people that want to, have the hardest time with it, but others who never intended to, sometimes do it on accident..

    I can only hope that you and your wife don't stress out about it too much. It's a lot to think about when there are no results for time and effort. I can only suggest you and your wife try to stay positive, even if it's a little depressing.

    Even if you've already discussed it with your wife, stop, give her a hug, and let her know that you're happy, and you hope she's happy no matter what happens. If and when something comes of your situation, then you will have had a good/less stressful time getting there.

    Take care, keep your chin up, good luck.
     
  3. Apr 18, 2011 at 10:49 AM
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    hoosiertaco

    hoosiertaco Well-Known Member

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    It took us over 7. I know how you feel....and you already have a complete family with your wife. But again, I know your feelings. pm sent.
     
  4. Apr 18, 2011 at 10:54 AM
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    MQQSE

    MQQSE Bannable Galloot

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    Prayers for God to Bless you both! Keep the faith...God will provide, or show you the path to fulfillment.
     
  5. Apr 18, 2011 at 3:29 PM
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    ImpulseRed008

    ImpulseRed008 Gone But Not Forgotten

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    :pray: for God to bless you both with a bundle of joy
     
  6. Apr 18, 2011 at 3:32 PM
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    cameronlane

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    is adoption out of the question?
     
  7. Apr 18, 2011 at 5:02 PM
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    Incognito

    Incognito No better friend, no worse enemy

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  8. Apr 19, 2011 at 7:04 PM
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    "OldManTan"

    "OldManTan" Bye bloody Taco... Hello MGM Burrito!

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    Holy chit, I've done a lot already!!
    I fully understand! My wife are in such a similar situation you have no idea. Prayers for you to concieve, and have fun doing it!! We are in the process of adopting, which is both exciting and nerve racking.
     
  9. Apr 19, 2011 at 7:10 PM
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    wildjerseyfirefighter

    wildjerseyfirefighter I sell fishing and fishing accessories

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    stress plays a big part in it..Go away on vacation, and for a lack of better terms "fuck like rabbits"
     
  10. Apr 19, 2011 at 7:13 PM
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    wmdpowell

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    Prayers helped for us.
     
  11. Apr 19, 2011 at 7:15 PM
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    malander

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    I'll be prayin for you man, even if we can be shits at times :) gotta smile, relax, love life and embrace it without kids for now because I'm sure you'll have a couple munchkins on the way soon.
     
  12. Apr 19, 2011 at 7:30 PM
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    "OldManTan"

    "OldManTan" Bye bloody Taco... Hello MGM Burrito!

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    Holy chit, I've done a lot already!!
    LOL I have heard that too.
     
  13. May 9, 2011 at 6:34 AM
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    hoosiertaco

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    Today was a day you mentioned in a pm as important. So some extra prayers today brother for a good day.:)
     
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