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Relationship Issue...Need help Bad!!!

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by tc2008, Oct 6, 2008.

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  1. Oct 6, 2008 at 5:23 PM
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    Thanks guys for giving so much advice on the positive side. Here the 411 for what was going on the last 4hrs of battling this situation. She finally came to a sense that her ex isn't worth it and he absolutely doesn't give a shit about her. It was like she having a dejavu that she actually wants to be back with him. So we finally worked something out.

    I told her i'd give her another chance but we won't see each other for like a month so she can get shit out straight with her feelings and I need to do some more thinking about this issue.

    After all I'm not the type of guy that can be easily let go of someone i've been through with so much for the past year, Yes i'm hurt by suddenly she having feelings for him and lied but I guess everyone deserves second chance as she has given me many chance before for many mistakes i've made and hurt her a few times before.
     
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  2. Oct 6, 2008 at 5:59 PM
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    good luck! Hey is her mom hot??? LOL
     
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  3. Oct 6, 2008 at 6:08 PM
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    On second thought, maybe thats a tad inappropriate.
     
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  4. Oct 6, 2008 at 6:18 PM
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    well dude hope it works out... only thing I see wrong with this whole situation is this.... if he DID have an interest in her would she still be around? doubt it.. he doesnt want her so she is playing the cards she has for now (you)
     
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  5. Oct 6, 2008 at 7:55 PM
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    "good luck! Hey is her mom hot??? LOL "


    did you miss the humor here??
     
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  6. Oct 6, 2008 at 9:15 PM
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    I haven't read the other replies but you need to kick her to the curb, and fast.

    I know you'll feel like shit for a few weeks, but it will subside with time.

    Don't waste your time with her.
     
    bambooshoots, Oct 6, 2008
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  7. Oct 7, 2008 at 2:27 PM
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    You've got a month. Go out and live! DO NOT sit home, do not reject advances of other girls, and do not long for time with her. Seriously, take this as an opportunity to gain perspective.
     
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  8. Oct 7, 2008 at 2:43 PM
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    sound advice....
     
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  9. Oct 14, 2008 at 1:21 PM
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  10. Oct 14, 2008 at 2:00 PM
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    nd Radical Town. It's a hell of a place!

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    sounds like she's only with you cause her ex wont take her back. dump her and find someone decent
     
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  11. Oct 14, 2008 at 2:07 PM
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    i agree with finding someone else she is spending all this time on trying to get him back buying him things and shes not doing crap for you buying you things, what happens when she confesses that she slept with dude and she says it was an accident it should have never happened and she is going to think its ok he will take me back.
     
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  12. Oct 14, 2008 at 2:10 PM
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    you know the whole thing about finding another job. Don't ever quit until you have another job lined up. She's doing that to you. PIITB and then leave her.
     
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  13. Oct 14, 2008 at 2:14 PM
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    PERFECT advice!!!

    my ex Ex has started talking to me after 2.5 years of being broken up. she says she thinks she made a mistake and wants to talk about getting back together. she is currently living with the guy she dumped me for. i asked if they were still together and living together and she said yes. i said i wouldn't even talk to her while she was dating him. what kind of bullshit move is that? what i haven't told her is that i dont think i can ever trust her again and cant take her back. i'm not gonna tell her that until she dumps the other guy. IMO i'd be doing him a favor. he has no idea she is running around talking about getting back together with ex's. if i told her no right now she'd just stay with him cause there is nothing better. she's sucha bitch
     
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  14. Oct 14, 2008 at 2:19 PM
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    mws4ua I'll try being nicer if you try being smarter.

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    She's been lying, and she's been seeing somebody (her ex, no less) behind your back. I don't care if he doesn't reciprocate her feelings, she's been treating you wrong.

    IMO, the most important aspect in any relationship is trust, and you CAN'T trust her.
     
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  15. Oct 14, 2008 at 2:32 PM
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    she's sounds pretty nice to me. I think you should get back together with your sister.
     
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  16. Oct 14, 2008 at 2:36 PM
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    haha....idiot
     
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    dump her ass she is wasting your time
     
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  18. Oct 14, 2008 at 3:04 PM
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    that's all you got? Don't tell me you already sobered up from the weekend
     
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    hey man, i'm 24. i've never been single since i was 18. been in and out of 3 relationships in that time. yeah, i was dumb lol, and i learned the hard way. you are young man, enjoy your youth. there will be plenty of time for relationships when you get older. i wish i could turn back the clock to when i was 18 and start over. and now, i'm happier than i ever was. i'm enjoying life while i'm still a young buck. goodluck......
     
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