Retrofit wiring harness

I'm trying to finish up my retrofits but the wiring harness is thrown me. I know where everything goes except for this "OEM input" as labeled by TRS. This plug does not match my OEM inputs.

Now, the RGB demon eyes are going to pose a whole new issue, not obvious where those go either.

Also not obvious where the wires for solenoid (high/low beam) plug in, but first thing is first.

 

so found this thread...it shows the connection. the plug i got on the harness i got from TRS does not match my OEM input.

https://www.tacomaworld.com/threads...ontrol-bi-xenon-harness-install-guide.366208/

 

So, it's the wrong damn harness! I need the H4/9003 and this is something else. I don't know if I ordered wrong or what....no wonder I couldn't figure out where the plug for shields go.