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Sad day

Discussion in 'Personal & Emotional Support' started by Jeffch, Oct 25, 2018.

  1. Apr 17, 2019 at 7:09 AM
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    tcjacado

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    Good morning Jeff,
    How is spring treating you and the family? How is your mom doing?
    Hope you are all well.:hattip:
     
  2. Apr 24, 2019 at 9:24 AM
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    Good morning,
    I was hoping it would get better but it still hasn’t been that long.
    She seems to have given up at times. She’s sad at times angry others. Spring is good but brings a laundry list of Dad’s todos which seem to be mine now.
    At least the leaves and stuff can wait a little bit but she won’t I don’t think. She’s been cleaning up winter then complains about doing it.
    Hope everyone is getting some nicer weather as well.
    Nice not seeing the salt everywhere. :hattip::cheers:
     
  3. Jun 4, 2019 at 10:38 PM
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    Evening Jeff,
    Time for a check in..... how are you, mom and the family doing these days? Hope the weather isn't treating you to badly.
     
  4. Jun 6, 2019 at 2:04 PM
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    Hey Jay,
    We are ok kinda.
    It’s been hard on us all.
    I get frustrated at times but we’ve had a lot of those times that hurt.
    Deer season was tuff then thanksgiving and Xmas.
    Mom had a birthday mine is next week and his is next month.
    Oh yea and Father’s Day would seem pretty hollow without the kids now.
    Moms been ok she gets kinda mean at times but that’s understandable.
    Even my kids have mentioned it my daughter especially she’s done a bunch of outings with mom.
    I usually get put to work when I go over.
    I feel guilty cause I ditched her and took some me time finally.
    Buffed and paint sealed the truck! Did the wife’s suby also.
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    Damm sorry brother!
    Thank you for the opportunity to vent!
    TW has some good people thank you!

    Jeff
     
  5. Jun 6, 2019 at 2:15 PM
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    Glad to hear most things are going well Jeff.
    Hang tough and be moms rock. Have a good summer.
    I think I can speak for most on the forum and say vent away. We are here not only for the love of Tacoma’s but for each other. :cheers:
     
  6. Aug 9, 2019 at 3:37 PM
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    Hey everyone,
    Just a quick update.
    Moms doing ok to good it’s still hard but she is doing well.
    She’s stubborn and does a lot more stuff.
    Dad liked his beer as do I so staying home and not driving is a good plan.
    Anyway moms doing well but I still have a hard time getting rid of any of his stuff.
    Mom wants to get rid of the clutter but it’s dads stuff.
    So I’ve just been slow at it and bring most of it home.
    The wife keeps telling me we don’t 2-3 of the same things so I sell or donate my stuff and keep his?
    I miss him a lot!
    He was dad and one of my best friends.
    Love you dad!!!

    Thank you all here for your help!
    Tell your loved ones you love them.
     
  7. Aug 9, 2019 at 6:28 PM
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    Glad to hear you, mom and the family are doing ok.:thumbsup:
     
  8. Aug 11, 2019 at 4:29 PM
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    God bless you and your family friend. I'm sorry to hear of your loss but thank God you and the rest of your family are alive and well. I believe that you will be comforted and don't feel guilty that you are not perfect. No humans are perfect and none of us are able to do everything, but this is why Jesus died, so He could give us eternal life and one day there will be no pain or suffering or death. I love you friend, I wish there was more I could do for you, but know that there is Someone who loves you and your family and He desires that none should perish but have everlasting life!
     
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  9. Aug 11, 2019 at 4:58 PM
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  10. Aug 12, 2019 at 8:30 AM
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    I appreciate you all!
    Thanks for the support and friendship!
     
  11. Aug 12, 2019 at 8:31 AM
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  12. Aug 12, 2019 at 8:32 AM
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    Prayers, sorry for your loss. Take it day by day...
     
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    One of the best posts I’ve ever read on an Internet forum...well done
     
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  14. Sep 16, 2019 at 10:45 AM
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    Hi Jeff, how are you and the family doing? Mom doing ok still?
     
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  15. Sep 20, 2019 at 3:34 PM
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    Hey bud!
    We are doing ok.
    It’s tough without the old man.
    The travel is getting old.
    My brother has been doing more not sure if that’s good or bad?
    He likes to try and influence his opinions on others.
    And just to add to the list we adopted this.
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    He was on his way to the pound.

    Hope things are well with yourself and everyone else!
    It’s been a long year I thank you all for being there!
     
  16. Sep 20, 2019 at 3:36 PM
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    I agree!
     
  17. Sep 20, 2019 at 3:37 PM
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    ;) good to hear you are all doing ok.
    Keep an eye on that brother, so no fuckery happens. :fistbump:
     
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  18. Sep 20, 2019 at 3:38 PM
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    Thank you!
    I love you also and have been blessed with a lot of good humans!
     
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    Yea I try!
    He has a real different way of thinking than myself and dad.
    He always bashed the old man but I’d almost always agreed with him.
    Hoping moms seeing it since we’ve had to call in 3rd 4th and 5th opinions on some of what he’d had her convinced on.
    She told me you were right and I said no I just agree with most others?
     
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  20. Sep 20, 2019 at 3:57 PM
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    SO
    I joined TW to keep my truck running.
    Never would had thought that this thread would be my I love this place kind of thread!
    You are all amazing and I’m thankful for the opportunity to be here!
     
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