So GF and I decided to take a break....

Well she said she wants to be friends afterwards and not end it on a bad note... I def don't wanna be a backup, because that means that she doesn't really like me, she just wants a bf until she finds someone else.,

 

Contemplating this...

 

I understand this is your first girlfriend...but... THIS IS YOUR FIRST GIRLFRIEND. The stuff she's pulling just seems sketchy and really I think you shouldn't have expectations for her to come back because if she doesn't then you're going to let yourself down even more. Go on with life and have fun, meet people do whatever you can to distract yourself. If/when she comes back then you can go from there. If she doesn't then you have the freedom to date other girls... maybe someone that won't tell you your jokes suck and that you annoy her.

HEY HEY none of that. I'm offended lol

 

What do you mean by sketchy? What do you think is up?

 

I'm sorry but those are major FRIEND ZONING words. Trust me I'm a girl lol

 

From what it sounds like... She's hiding something, or just doesn't want to be with you.. And is using this as a start to a complete break up.. I say, on to the next one.

GLWGF

 

I think she wants to experience other people... but keep you around in case she needs someone to go to.

 

Thats exactly how I see it as well. She wants you to be the backup plan. I bet you $100 if you had a new girlfriend she would be trying to get back with you in a second.
sounds like she either cheated or is interested in someone else

 

Okay look. Between you, me and TW...

Drop her.


I know it's hard but drop her. Look what she's doing to you. You are upset, she's treating you like some kind of dog. YES DOG. You come when she wants you to, you back off when she wants you to. What kind of respect is that? If she doesn't like your jokes, if you annoy her then fine. For some reason it was all good before but now suddenly this comes up? What kind of game is this? If she can't be happy that you have free time and not stressed like her then she is not LOVING you. When you love someone you want more good for them than you do for yourself. You never get angry because the one you love is NOT going through ugly times.

So tell me. Is she really loving you?

Don't call her. Take her phone number off of your phone. Block hers from coming to yours. Unfriend her on facebook and change your status to single. You should not feel bad about this because this is what she wants, right? Don't even look at her or say hello to her at school. If she says hi, give her the head bob thing and keep going. Or simply not hear her.

How can she treat you like this? You are worth more than that. You went through so much trying to do the right thing when you first went out and met her parents. I remember that. You are a great person, a TRUE person. And she treats you like this? Don't play that game. Respect yourself and don't let her do this to you.

You are a really good guy, one who cares sincerely. Do you think I'd forget how honorable you are?

You need a woman who can be honest with you and respect you. Not play you for a fool and take advantage of your heart.

Drop her. And love yourself enough to let her go. Because she is not loving you at all. Drop this game. Why keep her around?

 

I think any girl that just broke up with her bf would want them back if they saw him with another girl. That's like girl nature.

I really hope she didn't cheat, she told me she was being completely honest with me yesterday. She in the past has told me EVERYTHING, stuff that doesn't get told to people commonly at all. I hope that her next boy, if this doesn't work out, treats her like sh!t, and all the others after that treat her like that too, so that she realizes how well I treated her and how much I was worht to her.

 

I have heard so many different things... People say that I did the right thing taking a break and to just wait it out and see, some people say dump her. I don't know.

 

She still has my jackets in her dorm, and my condoms are still there too... I wonder what the look on her face will be when I take those with me...

 

Agree 100%. Also I'm pretty sure if she finds another guy she will let you go for him. Don't stick around for that.

 

And babytruck, she said that she is not excited to see anyone, because she is too tired from all the stuff she has to do.

 

Do you want TW help? Why are you defending her?

 

I do want help, I am just stating what she told me is all.

 

Denial. The poor boy is heart broken

 

Listen to babytruck.