Switch wired wrong lite on switch turns on when truck is off and other way as well...

So I replaced a switch today the off road store hada put a three prong rocker I just got my aftermarket TRAY LIGHT switch that has 5 prongs.... The problem is it will turn on and off the LEDs in my cupholders but the only time the LED in the switch lights up is when I have the truck off.... When it's on it shuts off but still operates the cup holder LED lights. I have tried so many different fuses under the box near stearingwheel which one should I use one is already taken up to power the USB port in rear of truck center con sole any help.... Here is a picture of the switch on when truck is off.... And a picture of the switch what fuse do I use? I have tried like 5-6 different ones the aux power is taken up with a tap a fuse and this tape a fuse has no home... I also am using a 15 amp fuse it's just 5 LED cupholder lights could that be why I am blowing the cig port fuses? First pic is of eBay pic of back of switch what goes where and if tap a fuse is a no go where do I get power? Second is of current setup I jumped the two grounds together then ran one to tape a fuse to like 6 different spots I am running a 15 amp fuse and blowing cig port fuses could that be connected?the power out to led lights...third pic is of eBay store back of switch pic??? Help light on truck off turn truck on light goes off

 

No offense but your questions are really hard to fallow.
Try making a new sentence for each one.
But here is how you wire a 5 prong carling switch.

 

Sorry about the writing I get in home IV for my treatments during the week at night and it's a lot of meds... I did that work in the Am and know stuck in bed on my IV. If you want it might be better to write u in the morning. Any info will get me started I don't sleep!!!

 

Yes those Arrows are a jumper...

 

Its all right I did it a lot when I was newer on the forum to.
Just use the enter bar that way each thing is a separate line makes it a lot easier to read.
Hope you feel better.

 

It looks like you have the hot jumper to the ground, that would be why your blowing fuses.
look at the pic I posted. Both of the top prongs are ground.
middle is hot in, bottom hot out. and other bottom is the blue back light for the switch when it is off.
If you only want the light on when the key is on your jumper will go from 2 to 6 on the diagram.

 

Or if you wanted the switch covers pop off.
You could put your tray light cover on the 3 prong switch if wanted.