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The Moving on process

Discussion in 'Personal & Emotional Support' started by longbow, Sep 29, 2009.

  1. Sep 30, 2009 at 9:21 AM
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    sockmonkey

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    if something were to happen to someone in my family, i hope to have half the strength, it sounds like you have, to deal with it.

    hang in there.
    god bless
     
  2. Sep 30, 2009 at 9:28 AM
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    AlexForbesR6

    AlexForbesR6 My R6 Eats Me

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    glad to hear your making it through this.
    stay strong my friend.
     
  3. Sep 30, 2009 at 6:22 PM
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    Hot Tamale

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    Thanks for taking the time to let us all know how you and the girls are doing. Sounds like even though there are bad days, there are a few good ones thrown in there from time to time. Hopefully it will come to the point where there are more good than bad ones, but that is going to take quite awhile. I lost my Dad a year and a half ago and there are still some very bad days that pop up, same with my Mom who I lost 4 years ago. You sure do get mad at them for leaving, don't you? The best thing you can do is to go on with your life the way Michelle would have wanted you to. You say you get mad at her, but I bet she gets mad at you too for not working on your truck and doing the other things that you enjoy! She would not want you to be unhappy. Please know that all of us here at TW are here for you and are always happy to see you've posted. Take care of yourself and the girls. I know everybody says it will get easier with time but unfortunately, they never tell us how much time.
     
  4. Sep 30, 2009 at 6:33 PM
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    blkcoma32

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    good to here buddy!
     
  5. Oct 4, 2009 at 5:31 AM
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    JM76

    JM76 Ride On

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    sorry that I didn't catch this post sooner. Always glad to hear that things are coming along. Everything with time, but hell, how much time? I know the cross your carry in life is heavy, but hopefully, in time the weight will lighten up. Stay strong, "never say die, never tap out"
     
  6. Oct 4, 2009 at 5:40 AM
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    Just4fununlimited

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    Bill I haven't been with TW too long but I want you to know that I will keep you and your family in our prayers. Stay strong and God bless.
     
  7. Oct 4, 2009 at 6:34 AM
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    medic2230

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    Good to hear your doing better. We can't always pick the cards we are dealt. Sometimes we just have to sit back and accept them...even though it's something we don't want. Time will heal. Try to stay busy and get some things done on your Taco, that will help. You are in my thoughts.

    Murph
     
  8. Oct 4, 2009 at 6:50 AM
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    AK27

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    glad to hear from you Bill! best wishes to you and your girls :)
     
  9. Oct 6, 2009 at 8:06 PM
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    Charli

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  10. Oct 6, 2009 at 8:36 PM
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    Your resilience is truly inspiring Bill. :thumbsup: Welcome back.
     
  11. Oct 6, 2009 at 8:44 PM
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    Glad to hear things are starting to look up, I know it has got to be difficult and its good that you have your family to turn to. I hope things keep looking up for you guys, good luck, and you know your TW family is always here for you.
     
  12. Oct 12, 2009 at 8:32 AM
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    Bill has not been on since he made this thread. It has been a very bad two weeks for him to put it straight. He tells it like it is, so I can do the same.

    He needs continued prayers to continue to heal, and also get past other things that have attacked him lately.

    He told me yesterday that he intends to be on TW regularly again soon. He told me today he is getting back into archery and archery hunting again too.:woot: I wish I lived next to him and it is so hard to not be right there for him when I would like to be.

    I'm so happy and honored to get to be such a good friend of his. I would really like everyone to send him an encouraging pm welcoming him back if you feel led. Please help me spread the word!!Thanks.

    Bill's life lately kind of reminds me of Job's life in the Bible. Bill's faith and trust in God also reminds me of Job.

    For when you get here Bill>>>........Welcome Back brother!!!!!!
     
  13. Oct 12, 2009 at 8:59 AM
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    tcBob

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    Anytime you're ready to come back we're here for you Bill...stay strong brother!
     
  14. Oct 12, 2009 at 9:00 AM
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    Thoughts and prayers continue to go out to Bill and family from my corner of Tennessee. It will be great to have you back on TW so hurry and get back to chatting with us!
     
  15. Oct 12, 2009 at 9:01 AM
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    chris4x4

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    Prayers are with ya, Bill! :)
     
  16. Oct 12, 2009 at 9:04 AM
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    derekabraham

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    Welcome back Bill!!!!
     
  17. Oct 12, 2009 at 9:05 AM
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    Good to see you longbow!
     
  18. Oct 12, 2009 at 9:10 AM
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    Hot Tamale

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    Bill-hope you will be back with us as a regular soon. We've missed you. I know things can get overwhelming at times, but that's when you need to jump on TacomaWorld and read some of the supportive messages. Also, to make you laugh, there are always some silly shennanigans being posted. You and the girls are always in our thoughts. Whenever you read this, Welcome Back! :)
     
  19. Oct 12, 2009 at 9:13 AM
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    Welcome back!
     
  20. Oct 12, 2009 at 9:14 AM
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    fghtngsquirrel

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    Bill, prayers sent upward for you and your family! Your faith and strength through this has inspired and encouraged everyone on this board, definitely including myself, so stay strong!
     
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