The Rise of the Pavement Princess

Willy Lump Lump · Feb 16, 2025

dryheat said: ↑

I sense an insecure beta-cuck who feels threatened by men in lifted trucks.

Fun fact: women who take hormonal birth control select for more feminine men. Consider what that's doing to society....
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Dang. I guess the nice guys get laid more?
My ex wife took birth control, now she don’t need it cuz she dates a woman. I hope my hands aren’t too soft.

InThePlains · Feb 16, 2025

Dude does have hair like a princess.

Mrcooperou812 · Feb 16, 2025

For a 70s born like me who still remembers 3 TV channels and party phone lines with rotary dial, this was an outstanding length video of a whole bunch of stuff blown up over the social media years and you reach 50, you still don't give a shit and it's full speed ahead like its 1999 every year.

dryheat · Feb 16, 2025

Willy Lump Lump said: ↑

Dang. I guess the nice guys get laid more?
My ex wife took birth control, now she don’t need it cuz she dates a woman. I hope my hands aren’t too soft.
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I've heard plenty of stories of women losing interest in their boyfriend when they stop taking birth control. No joke...

Willy Lump Lump · Feb 16, 2025

dryheat said: ↑

I've heard plenty of stories of women losing interest in their boyfriend when they stop taking birth control. No joke...
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lol. My brother had the same thing happen to him as me.

dryheat · Feb 16, 2025

Willy Lump Lump said: ↑

lol. My brother had the same thing happen to him as me.
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Next time ask the wife's boyfriend for permission

Willy Lump Lump · Feb 16, 2025

dryheat said: ↑

Next time ask the wife's boyfriend for permission
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Ex wives’ boys are both women.

dryheat · Feb 16, 2025

Willy Lump Lump said: ↑

Ex wives’ boys are both women.
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Damn dude, I'm sorry You sure they weren't "women"?

jsi · Feb 16, 2025

I liked the video, but it's too long to get much traction and if it ever did this post would be a dumpster fire . A lot of posters here that are like those kids behind the glass.

ClassyTacos · Feb 17, 2025

High school in Miami, that 4th gen Chevy was everything. Carry over of the SWB. I wanted a 2 door blazer so bad.

offroadguy651 · Feb 17, 2025

Two words: don’t care.

ace_10 · Feb 17, 2025

TheDevilYouLove said: ↑

+40 min video so here’s a summary

Introduction: The Rise of the “Pavement Princess”

• The video opens with a discussion about luxury pickup trucks that are rarely used for their intended purpose.

• The narrator claims that the increase in pickup truck ownership since the 1990s is not due to blue-collar work but rather an economic and mental health crisis.

• He argues that trucks serve as a coping mechanism for Americans struggling with financial instability and a lack of social safety nets.

The Evolution of Pickup Trucks

• Plywood and Truck Design:

• Historically, truck beds were designed to fit a 4x8 sheet of plywood, a standard in construction.

• This changed with the rise of crew cabs, which prioritized passenger space over utility.

• Growth in Size & Cost:

• Modern pickups are significantly bigger, heavier, and more expensive than those in the 1990s.

• Example:

• A 1990 Ford F-150 cost $12,000 ($27,000 today adjusted for inflation).

• A 2025 Ford F-150 costs $63,000, a 133% price increase despite wages rising only 15% in that period.

Why Do People Buy Trucks They Don’t Need?

• Symbol of Stability & Success:

• Owning a pickup truck is seen as a status symbol, signaling financial success and self-reliance.

• Blue-Collar Aesthetic vs. Reality:

• While pickups are marketed towards rugged, hardworking men, skilled tradesmen make up less than 25% of the workforce.

• The stereotypical “blue-collar man” in country music videos rarely reflects reality.

• Financial Strain of Truck Ownership:

• The average truck payment is $715/month, not including gas and maintenance.

• Many buyers cannot afford these trucks but feel social pressure to own one.

Suburban Men & the Masculinity Crisis

• The video describes how men in suburban areas react to financial and social pressures:

• Some become “soft suburban dads”—overweight, isolated, and lacking ambition.

• Others overcompensate with loud trucks, aggressive behavior, and political posturing.

• Male Identity Crisis in America:

• Many men feel trapped between traditional expectations (being a provider) and modern economic realities.

• This has led to increased male isolation, frustration, and declining college/workforce participation.

Truck Ownership as Posturing

• Trucks as a “Fake” Status Symbol:

• They provide an illusion of freedom and power, even when the owner is financially struggling.

• Many men use their trucks to signal masculinity and status rather than for actual utility.

• Truck Ownership & Political Identity:

• In the U.S., trucks have become symbols of rural and conservative identity.

• Many owners see them as a cultural pushback against liberal policies.

• The video argues that pickup truck culture reflects broader societal issues, including:

• Economic instability

• A lack of community

• The struggle of modern masculinity

Personal Identity & Authenticity

• The speaker emphasizes the importance of being authentic in relationships and social interactions.

• Fakeness is detectable, and pretending to be someone you’re not will eventually lead to issues.

• Instead of following rigid labels (political, philosophical, or economic), individuals should focus on developing their own nuanced perspectives.

Self-Improvement vs. Self-Awareness

• Toxic productivity is a real issue—self-improvement should stem from self-awareness rather than external pressures.

• Examples:

• Dieting can become unhealthy if it turns into an obsession.

• Waking up at 5 AM to work out after a 1 AM bedtime is counterproductive.

• The key is understanding personal motivations and tailoring improvements to personal goals rather than societal expectations.

Caution in Exploring New Ideas

• Many online influencers promote misleading ideas about finance, health, and spirituality.

• Blindly adopting new lifestyles, diets, or ideologies without thorough investigation can lead to bad decisions.

• The speaker compares this to rushing into relationships—understanding the full picture of a new idea or person is crucial.

Understanding Male Mental Health

• Men and women experience and express mental health differently.

• Exercise, career growth, and financial stability tend to improve male mental health more effectively than traditional therapy.

• Many men seek validation through being useful in social, financial, or professional contexts.

• The speaker highlights that most therapists are women, which may create a disconnect for some male clients.

Personal Experience with Therapy

• The speaker shares two experiences:

• Therapy at a VA hospital (which was highly beneficial due to shared experiences with veterans).

• University-provided therapy with young female PhD students, which felt ineffective due to a lack of relatability.

• The key takeaway: Therapy isn’t one-size-fits-all, and men may need alternative approaches to mental well-being.

A Holistic Approach to Helping Men

• Before assuming someone needs therapy, consider other factors:

• Is he lonely?

• Does he feel valued in his social/professional life?

• Is he getting proper nutrition and exercise?

• Is he facing unrealistic expectations at school or work?

• Addressing these foundational issues can reduce the need for toxic posturing (e.g., exaggerated masculinity through truck ownership or aggressive behavior).

Conclusion

• The video wraps up by reinforcing that as men find confidence and purpose, they will naturally move away from insecure behaviors.

• True self-worth eliminates the need for posturing, including excessive displays of masculinity.

• The speaker signs off, encouraging viewers to continue self-reflection and personal growth.
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Is there a TLDR for the TLDW?

VaToy · Feb 22, 2025

Bla,bla,bla! Horseshit I say! I love my Toyotas because I have been driving them for 40 years and they treat me right. hold their value and fits my style. Yea I can buy a large F250 Power Stroke, but I don't need it! I buy for me and what servers me and what the heck I want! Wasted 5 minutes trying to watch this BS!

Nomad26 · Feb 22, 2025

dryheat said: ↑

I sense an insecure beta-cuck who feels threatened by men in lifted trucks.

Fun fact: women who take hormonal birth control select for more feminine men. Consider what that's doing to society....
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As a woman, to me that just reads like another way why some may reason to not have birth control available to us. Maybe it’s just because men acting more “feminine” are more appealing than the machismo we get so tired of. Just a thought.

majpooper · Feb 22, 2025

I started watching the video but didn't understand it so stopped watching it after 5 minutes.

About the woman thing: my wife didn't take birth control pills and then did and then didn't . . . . "it" was all good either way, so . . . .

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