Too many choices...

So this may be a repetitive thread around here but I just got a 16' DCSB TRDOR 4x4 and I want to lift it a little but not too much. I've been reading around TW alot for the past few weeks and I have a few choices in mind but once I see a nice set up I keep looking and find another nice setup so I find it confusing on which one I really want to go with. I'm leaning hard toward the Bilstein 5100's with 885 OME coils and a 1.5"-2" block in the back. Going off of what everyone is saying this comes about to be about a 3" lift? I know blocks aren't the best way to lift the back but I'm not going to be hauling a whole lot so is that something I really have to worry about rather than getting an AAL? With it being a 4x4 should I got with 887's rather than 885's? And if so what setting should I put the shock on? And I want to get as much as I can without having to change the UCA's. I've had experience with lifts on my other Tacoma's but not as much as you guys... Thanks a lot!

 

def go with either: OME Dakar leafpack.......................or an Icon/wheelers progressive aal

 

Also, I want the truck to sit about 1/2-1" higher in the rear just because I hate the way it looks when the front end sits higher than the rear.