1. Welcome to Tacoma World!

    You are currently viewing as a guest! To get full-access, you need to register for a FREE account.

    As a registered member, you’ll be able to:
    • Participate in all Tacoma discussion topics
    • Communicate privately with other Tacoma owners from around the world
    • Post your own photos in our Members Gallery
    • Access all special features of the site

What to do??

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by tarheelfan_08, Dec 10, 2008.

  1. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:14 PM
    #1
    tarheelfan_08

    tarheelfan_08 [OP] Carolina Alliance

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2008
    Member:
    #4098
    Messages:
    2,951
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Justin
    North Carolina
    Vehicle:
    2010 White 4x4 Double Cab Tacoma Short Bed
    Chrome Grill, Chrome accessories(door handles and mirror covers), LEER Super White Cover, Mirrors with Turn Signals, Window Vent Visors, Step Rails, WeatherTech Digital Floor Mats, Mini Maglight Holder, Chrome Bull Bar
    Ok guys I need your advice. My GF's brother is shipping out for the military in early January and her family is throwing him a going away party and he is aloud to invite all his friends of course! But one of his friends happens to be her ex bf of 2 years. They broke up almost a year ago and me and her have been together for 6 months! I know he will talk to her(atleast say hey)..and I have a very short temper so it will jsut piss me off! What do I do guys?? I really need advice!
     
  2. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:15 PM
    #2
    -TRDMAN-

    -TRDMAN- ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ

    Joined:
    Dec 18, 2006
    Member:
    #514
    Messages:
    2,119
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Greg
    Clarion Pa
    Vehicle:
    F-150
    stand there and take it if she really likes you why even let it bother you???
     
  3. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:18 PM
    #3
    tigerfan00

    tigerfan00 BECAUSE INTERNETS!! Staff Member

    Joined:
    Apr 14, 2008
    Member:
    #5966
    Messages:
    37,191
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Jeff
    Dunkin Donuts
    Vehicle:
    02 TRD 4x4

    x2...it sucks but be the bigger man and play it cool
     
  4. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:19 PM
    #4
    tarheelfan_08

    tarheelfan_08 [OP] Carolina Alliance

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2008
    Member:
    #4098
    Messages:
    2,951
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Justin
    North Carolina
    Vehicle:
    2010 White 4x4 Double Cab Tacoma Short Bed
    Chrome Grill, Chrome accessories(door handles and mirror covers), LEER Super White Cover, Mirrors with Turn Signals, Window Vent Visors, Step Rails, WeatherTech Digital Floor Mats, Mini Maglight Holder, Chrome Bull Bar
    I know but I have really bad jealousy issues! So I'm affraid that if he even looks at her I may punch him! I mean two years is a long time!
     
  5. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:19 PM
    #5
    TRD4x4858

    TRD4x4858 Taco Traitor!

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2008
    Member:
    #10117
    Messages:
    3,058
    Gender:
    Male
    San Diego
    Vehicle:
    95 Jeep XJ
    BONE STOCK! lol

    x3 play it cool :cool:
     
  6. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:21 PM
    #6
    -TRDMAN-

    -TRDMAN- ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ

    Joined:
    Dec 18, 2006
    Member:
    #514
    Messages:
    2,119
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Greg
    Clarion Pa
    Vehicle:
    F-150
    i have the same problem.... but i have found that if you would do somthing like that the girl will look down on you... i know it hard and it suck but you gotta be the man! that she will like!!! tust me!
     
  7. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:21 PM
    #7
    vtragweed

    vtragweed Beef Slut

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2008
    Member:
    #8454
    Messages:
    1,623
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Willie
    VA
    Vehicle:
    08 2.7 SR5 Debadged
    afe pro-dry s filter, LCE headers, painted black steelies,color matched grill surround, URD short shifter, UWS black tool box
    do you suffer from self confidence issues?
     
  8. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:21 PM
    #8
    tigerfan00

    tigerfan00 BECAUSE INTERNETS!! Staff Member

    Joined:
    Apr 14, 2008
    Member:
    #5966
    Messages:
    37,191
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Jeff
    Dunkin Donuts
    Vehicle:
    02 TRD 4x4

    just realize...theyre NOT together and shes with you now...no need to be jealous...
     
  9. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:23 PM
    #9
    TRD4x4858

    TRD4x4858 Taco Traitor!

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2008
    Member:
    #10117
    Messages:
    3,058
    Gender:
    Male
    San Diego
    Vehicle:
    95 Jeep XJ
    BONE STOCK! lol
    x2 Wow! exactly what i was thinking
     
  10. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:25 PM
    #10
    beastlytaco

    beastlytaco This is TW. One never knows what is a joke anymore

    Joined:
    Jun 30, 2008
    Member:
    #7660
    Messages:
    4,072
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Ian
    Vehicle:
    08 tacoma standard cab
    15% tinted back window, 25% on sides. Jardine catback exhaust system. horn modification, AFE pro dry S filter and secondary filter removed. All weather toyota tacoma mats.
    well the best way to deal would probly just be to talk to other people and try to ignore him the best you can. try not to be rude or anything but i would just play it cool.
     
  11. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:29 PM
    #11
    tarheelfan_08

    tarheelfan_08 [OP] Carolina Alliance

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2008
    Member:
    #4098
    Messages:
    2,951
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Justin
    North Carolina
    Vehicle:
    2010 White 4x4 Double Cab Tacoma Short Bed
    Chrome Grill, Chrome accessories(door handles and mirror covers), LEER Super White Cover, Mirrors with Turn Signals, Window Vent Visors, Step Rails, WeatherTech Digital Floor Mats, Mini Maglight Holder, Chrome Bull Bar
    See what worries me is this. I told her she can say hey and thats fine! But do not have a conversation with him! If he talks to you then walk off! And she told me she wouldn't go out of her way to be rude!
     
  12. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:32 PM
    #12
    -TRDMAN-

    -TRDMAN- ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ

    Joined:
    Dec 18, 2006
    Member:
    #514
    Messages:
    2,119
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Greg
    Clarion Pa
    Vehicle:
    F-150
    well you can't dictate wat she does or you will lose her but if she really likes you then there shoulden't be a problem and if she does talk to him and you get mad at her god help you!!!! cas women hate that!!!
     
  13. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:32 PM
    #13
    vtragweed

    vtragweed Beef Slut

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2008
    Member:
    #8454
    Messages:
    1,623
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Willie
    VA
    Vehicle:
    08 2.7 SR5 Debadged
    afe pro-dry s filter, LCE headers, painted black steelies,color matched grill surround, URD short shifter, UWS black tool box
    youre gonna find out that women dont really like to be told what to do either
     
  14. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:34 PM
    #14
    neontrail

    neontrail ✈ ✈ ✈ ✈ ✈ ✈ ✈

    Joined:
    Apr 9, 2008
    Member:
    #5844
    Messages:
    10,154
    Gender:
    Male
    Idaho
    Vehicle:
    2004 NISSAN XTERRA XE/SE
    De-badged, Tint 20%, Blue 48 LED dome-light, .......

    :rolleyes:you're not in high school anymore.. Let the past be just that, THE PAST



    Dude.. get a grip!
     
  15. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:34 PM
    #15
    TRD4x4858

    TRD4x4858 Taco Traitor!

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2008
    Member:
    #10117
    Messages:
    3,058
    Gender:
    Male
    San Diego
    Vehicle:
    95 Jeep XJ
    BONE STOCK! lol
    x2 man, you dont wanna get her mad at you over this thing
     
  16. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:35 PM
    #16
    -TRDMAN-

    -TRDMAN- ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ

    Joined:
    Dec 18, 2006
    Member:
    #514
    Messages:
    2,119
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Greg
    Clarion Pa
    Vehicle:
    F-150
    Right on!:)
     
  17. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:38 PM
    #17
    tigerfan00

    tigerfan00 BECAUSE INTERNETS!! Staff Member

    Joined:
    Apr 14, 2008
    Member:
    #5966
    Messages:
    37,191
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Jeff
    Dunkin Donuts
    Vehicle:
    02 TRD 4x4
    yeah if shes anything like any of the girls ive dated...telling them what to do will only lead to them doing the opposite...

    just go on about your way and enjoy yourself...or dont go to the party...

    but youre how old now? its time to get a grip and realize that people are going to piss you off but theres better ways to handle things than fighting...
     
  18. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:46 PM
    #18
    vtragweed

    vtragweed Beef Slut

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2008
    Member:
    #8454
    Messages:
    1,623
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Willie
    VA
    Vehicle:
    08 2.7 SR5 Debadged
    afe pro-dry s filter, LCE headers, painted black steelies,color matched grill surround, URD short shifter, UWS black tool box
    dude, you should go there to have a good time. dont spend all the time worrying about what shes doing, if shes anything like my wife she prob doesnt need a babysitter, and shes gonna like you more if she can genuinely tell that youre cool with him being there and having fun with his presents!
     
  19. Dec 10, 2008 at 5:52 PM
    #19
    missileman125fw

    missileman125fw Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Dec 19, 2007
    Member:
    #3912
    Messages:
    2,735
    Dude, don't let it bother you. In fact, you should act the exact opposite. If he is talking to her than act like whatever. If you feel that strongly than just walk over to her and put your arm around, give her a kiss and walk off. It lets her know that you're thinking of her and it lets him know the same thing!
     
  20. Dec 10, 2008 at 6:15 PM
    #20
    kmok

    kmok Plastidipped ma Hootus!

    Joined:
    Jul 18, 2008
    Member:
    #8007
    Messages:
    2,361
    Gender:
    Male
    First Name:
    Kyle
    Columbus, Ohio
    Vehicle:
    4x4 Tacoma, SR5, TRD Offroad, 5 speed, V6
    Toytec Coilovers, Old Man Emu Leaf Pack, 5100s, Light Bar with Hella 700ffs, Chopped Exhaust, Herculined Rocker Panels, Trail Gear rear bumper, tinted windows
    Remember the party is for ur GF's brother and not you and hes shipping out to military, so you try your best to make the party good for him. Just ignore the guy and try to be cool about it. Good luck at the party I have some anger issues myself:D.
     
To Top