Whats yall's take on going back to a ex?

that.

 

I honestly dont know if posting helped the situation or not haha. I appreciate the feedback. Always nice hearing it from others with past experience.

 

This is very true.....so instead of banging everything that moves and getting all the stds....since alot of colleges are full of them....try it again with ur gal theeeeennnn learn how to use a computer and some lotion.....

 

Uh-huh.

OP, understand now, not later. You may feel bad that you did it now, but you'll feel better that you did it later. It's a lot tougher the other way around. Huh? Wha? Just do it.

 

I say go for it. Not like she cheated on you? Sounds like it was goind well. Stree can do that, but just because you guys broke up from stress after 6 months doesn't mean your relationship was crappy or anything. If you guys are in a long term relationship then you will be a lot stronger. As long as you guys give eachother your space when it comes to doing what you want, but still have trust for eachother, then it would last, AND you will still have a good time in college. You don't have to be single to have fun.

I'm a year younger than you, but I have been with the same girl for two years now, never had any kind of break ups or stupid mistakes along the way. We understand and trust eachother. If all goes well, I could be with her a long time. If not? I'll live. I'm 18, I can find another whenever I want. But I am perfectly happy now, and have all the fun I want.

Do what you feel is right. If you really like her go for it.

 

With out reading anyones posts. Dont be a Derp. Ive made the mistake twice and it never lasts not even that long and everything you hated about each other will come back. Save yourself the trouble, dont text her delete her number and never talk to her again.

 

People DON'T change.

 

So are you saying I shouldnt read this?

 

This is how I see it. I like the way you think.

 

Haha. My internet word placement isnt the best. Take it as you want but ive done it before and ive made a promise to myself to never get back with an ex again. its a waste of time and hurts just as bad the second time its cut off.

 

Learn from your own mistakes.....do whats in your heart and if it fucks up again say oh...i should not have done that again....problem solved

 

Haha i was just messing with ya. But the whole thing about breaking up for the second time, that is gonna suck. It sucked pretty bad the first time. Im just curious right now to see what will happen.

 

Print out this thread, place it in a time-capsule, and, assuming we survive 2012, open it in the year 2032. Then repost.

 

If you like her go for it, no point in wasting the opportunity right in front of you?

Worst case scenario, it doesn't work out. Big deal
Or
Long term relationship, and you are really happy you guys got back together.

If it was me, I would go option B, but I don't know this girl, or the relationship, or you. So I can't say that with total confidence.

 

I'm with the "don't have a steady girlfriend in college" crowd. Enjoy it while you can... the clock is ticking on your freedom, and in college, it's your prime time. That doesn't mean you can't "go out" on occasion, but this is a time for you to concentrate on YOU. Don't have the expense and burden of a steady girlfriend at your age. Just my thoughts.

P.S. Then again, maybe she only wants your dick... and if that's all, I say go for it. But don't forget about the importance of your FREEDOM.

~ rleeharris
Serving time since 1992

 

Alright, coming from someone who broke up with his girlfriend when he went to college, trust me, it's worth it. Instead of worrying about BS with her, I got to focus on school. And girls. And partying. Relationships are fine, but your first year in college should be single. Stay friends and see what happens after your first year is done.

 

FTF!

 

dont do it dude.... I did it once and was miserable. There is a reason she is an ex. you are young... move on to the next one.

 

haha i know, Yeah what i would say if you want to get laid go for the lay but dont get hooked into a relationship again. just my $.02