Which way do I lift it?

I just got a 2018 Tacoma Sport double cab 4wheel drive. I am looking at Falcon Wild peak tires or KO'2. I want a set of tires that will work well with 4x4 in snow if we get any this year. At most we might get 3inches. I want the tires to be quiet and smooth as well. I know **** in one hand and wish in the other! ha But with that in mind, anyone have any ideas? See, I want to raise the front of my truck level with the back. That's all the height I want because I drive A LOT and have to have a reasonable ride.
The second part is lifting the front even with the back. If it were leveled and then came up half inch or so I would be fine with that. As far as level I am looking at the set of four Bilstein 5100 adjustable height shock. Adjust the front so it is level with the back. That with some more aggressive smooth riding tires and I am a happy boy. I saw a you tube video where they did the 5100's and got the front even with the back.