WTT: 2007 TRD Offroad Access Cab

The basics:
I currently have a black 4x4 2007 TRD off-road access cab that I may be looking to trade. The truck has been in my family since 07 and has about 158,000 highway miles, being very lightly off-roaded a handful of times. The truck has minimal rust on the undercarriage/components. I purchased it from my brother stock about a year ago and since then I have installed:
- 6 inch pro comp stage 1 lift
- 35x12.50x18 Nitto Trail Grapplers mounted on 18 inch xd monsters(set of 5)
- Pioneer Head Unit
- ARB Deluxe Steel Bumper( I still have the stock bumper as well)
- Leer Camper Shell
- black led overhead in the back interior lighting(which I can change bulbs back to normal)

The reason I am looking into a trade:
I miss the ride that it had when it was stock. There is nothing mechanically wrong with the vehicle as it has been cared for very well, I just do not enjoy the basic 6 inch lift with spacers, it is a little too rugged for me. I also surf a good amount and the long trips are not as easy with the larger lift application. Currently I am a college student and I do not have the time nor money to invest in an upgraded suspension set up for the front end of my truck, which I could see solving many of the issues, but I would rather just get something a little lower.

What I am looking for: I pretty much want the same exact set up but with a 3 inch lift instead. I can remove the ARB bumper and put back the stock one if necessary but will most likely leave the camper shell since its vehicle specific(unless it is a longbed and black as well) and the tire/rim setup. The tires may have to be changed soon but other than that it is good to go,especially with a full size 35x12.5x18 spare on another 18 inch xd monster rim. Let me know what you have to offer as I may be in the market for a subaru forester as well!
Cheers!
Alex
P.S. Located in the Tidewater area of Virginia