life advice

You don't really need a solid reason to leave somebody if you are looking for a rationale. Just tell her you don't see a future with her. No reason to waste each-other's time, as harsh as it may seem.

 

Nope nope and nope again Do what I did..... I was in same jam with professional Life beating the total hell out of me and (a little about me first) I'm a Happy go lucky person found that it sure is easier to smile than to frown, always would hold the door open for the ladies.... and I started to turn into an Ass@#&e because of the professional life...lost my Girlfriend because of my attitude... So I knew a change was needed and I took a look at all my possessions looked at them close and decided to Sell everything that I did not need, went from 4 cars 3 trucks down to 1 car 2 trucks .... hey they were toyota's come on! got rid of all the toys that just sat there cleared out everything that had nothing to do with day to day needs, found a stress free new line of employment--- moved from Upstate NY to Utah for it and now? I go camping all the time, fishing as much as I can, plan on building an overland rig, back into doing Photography again and Yes I hold the Doors open again..... got 2 cats that are just a riot and a half to have around and next level is to connect with someone who likes to get into the same kind of trouble that I like..... So here is what a Saturday Morning looks like and a Sunday Afternoon...... I'm not saying you have to go as far as I did but don't let it burn you out the price is high and life just has so many great things out there that a burnout will miss.

 

This can be a major factor. I’m married with 4 kids and when work sucks life sucks in general. Before you make any decisions try to think everything through and make sure you’re in the right state of mind.

 

what is it that she needs? a commitment? if you are this unsure now dont get married and then go through a messy divorce. If you dont see her (current gf)in your future, end it as peacefully as possible and move on. Find someone you meld with who can accept you.