Remote Starter Woes

Im trying to setup my Compustar Remote Starter on my 2021 6 speed Tacoma

Ive gotten to the point i can get everything to work

BUT...

with the relay i have connected for some reason the HUD and gas gauge stops working. So my solution is that i need something in the fuse panel under the dash that has power only prior to ignition (if that even exists)

i followed a couple of other threads on here to get this far but have run into another roadblock unfortunately

main helpful one was this

https://www.tacomaworld.com/threads/remote-start-2017-tacoma.521636/page-2

the way i have it wired up currently

RELAY PIN 85 & 30 Jumped together going to Empty Slot on Fuse Panel that provides constant 12V (here lies the issue) Once i remove the power to pin 30 gauges come back and work normally

RELAY PIN 87 > Compustar
RELAY PIN 86 > CLUTCH START CANCEL button tapped YELLOW wire

i attempted to wire it as shown below but determined that i had to swap 86 & 87 for it to work



I was thinking i can possibly wire in a switch to interrupt the constant power going to the relay but wanted to see if anyone else had any different insight to a solution