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another girl question...

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by Menametony, May 22, 2009.

  1. May 22, 2009 at 11:07 PM
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    Menametony

    Menametony [OP] Well-Known Member

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    k.. let me set up the scene.. im at a club... ive only had a beer (im on a motorcycle).. its been about 3 hours since that beer.. had water the rest of the night.. but besides that... i was dancing... i suck at it but hey whatever... so i see this girl talking to her friend.. looking at me...and next thing you know she comes up and asks me to dance....that usually doesnt happen to me...so i asked her did her friend dare her to ask me... she said no..... k now fast forward 2 or so hours... her friend came up to me and ask if i was interested.. she wasnt that bad... she was talking about exchanging numbers...and then........... i saw the "girl" pull out a cigarette... bleh...so here's the question..keep in mind im too nice of a guy.... how the heck do you turn down a girl after you said you were interested? the bartender (friend) told me to give her a fake number... my other friend told me to just walk out and run!!... what do you guys think i should have done?


    tony
     
  2. May 22, 2009 at 11:14 PM
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    JimBeam

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    just bail!


    or take her back to her place...hit it...then bail
     
  3. May 22, 2009 at 11:15 PM
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    Menametony

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    hrmmm... i dont even think i can do that.... i need to grow a pair....lol
     
  4. May 22, 2009 at 11:17 PM
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    Menametony

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    oh yeah... at the end i was talking to my friend the bartender... and the "friend" came up and ask if i was interested... i gave one of those looks and said... ehh..... then she said thats a no then... rolled her eyes.. did the finger thing... and walked off all moody... +1 for me for being a dick? i feel so bad about it though...
     
  5. May 22, 2009 at 11:58 PM
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    I have to agree. You can't expect much at a bar of all places. If shes good looking, hit it, then leave it. Why not?
     
  6. May 23, 2009 at 12:04 AM
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    Put a rain jacket on. Get wet, then get out!

    The smart thing to say would have been, I am but I just noticed shes a smoker and I'm allergic to smoke. Now if the bar is a smoking bar you say "Yeah she's pretty good looking but I'm allergic to Herpes."
     
  7. May 23, 2009 at 12:05 AM
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    i agree. shes probly lookin for that anyways! :rolleyes:
     
  8. May 23, 2009 at 12:06 AM
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    I would say it depends on your current relationship status and IF you are single, how long have you been "out of the game".

    If it's been a while, I'd say take her out. If you really don't like the smoke thing, insist that she doesn't do it. She can hold off until the night is over.

    But, if you recently got out of a relationship, I'd say skip on it. It is probably not what you are looking for.



    I recently got home from a party. (I didn't drink, I drove) [oh what am I saying, I'm too young to drink :rolleyes:] There was a fine chick there I was talking to and she smokes, but I would have hit so fast, but that's because I've been "out of the game" for a good while now. :rolleyes:

    Anyways, I'm done talking for now. :D
     
  9. May 23, 2009 at 12:13 AM
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    Ok people....if passing her up in the early stages gives him a minor complex.....you really think encouraging him to "bang her 'n' run" is what he should be doing??

    LOL

    But seriously. No skin off your your butt really. She may have been interesting, but I agree 100% with you on the smoking bit. Last thing you want is that smelly odour around you (or even worse - getting in your Tacoma). Sure not everyone will agree, but there's many people out there that can't stand the foul smell of smoking.
     
  10. May 23, 2009 at 12:15 AM
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    Hey, maybe it is just me but, I don't know many people that go to the bar, or club for that matter looking for a start to their next long term relationship. The ones that I know who do, well, lets just say they usually don't end up with the 'winners.'

    W/ that said, go out and have some fun.
     
  11. May 23, 2009 at 5:22 AM
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    Yeah dude- You knew her for what- 2 hours?? You thought you'd put it in her then found out she smokes....if that's a deal breaker...Fuck it.

    There are tons of other non-smoking chicks out there...No worries
     
  12. May 23, 2009 at 5:28 AM
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    smoking is gross. i have dated smokers. i didn't let it get in my way of a interesting girl. Do they mind I pick my nose? a few were kind enough to rarely do it around me.
    I cant stand the ones who say " I know I should quit, but..."

    but yeah. you are over analyzing this whole thing..
    she could be one of those ones who only does it when she drinks, or is nervous.
     
  13. May 23, 2009 at 5:38 AM
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    Damn....smokin' is a deal breaker....period. :puke:

    Personally, I would thanked her for the dance and time and walked away.
     
  14. May 23, 2009 at 6:01 AM
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    I would have given her a lollipop to suck on :)
     
  15. May 23, 2009 at 6:55 AM
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    some of these responses are hilarious! Nice job guys! hahaha
     
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    Why not? He might end up with the 7 year itch....that's why not.:D
     
  17. May 23, 2009 at 7:02 AM
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    How 'bout just be honest. Could've told her you were interested until you saw the cigarette. Don't feel like licking an ash tray tonight. Thanks but no thanks.

    "If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything. ~Mark Twain"
     
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    haha thanks guys
     
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