dumped the gf...but want her back...wut to do?

and!! your 21..get laid and have fun you idiot..forget about this one chick

 

Well, my .02...

If she lets you keep hittin it, stay with her, but not with her.

If she won't leave her.

 

After going through a breakup recently(my girl and I were together for over 4yrs, she was my first serious GF) I'd have to say its best for you to move on. I broke up with her a couple times over various things but I always got back with her and as others have said, it was only a matter of time before I began to understand why I had done it in the first place. There was a reason you broke up with her. You need to give yourself time away from her to get yourself straightened out and clear your head. If after some time, you still regret it, then try and get back with her. If she is a bit apprehensive to getting back together so soon, some time will help her too. If she truely loves you, then the negative things from your relationship will fade from her memory, and the positive ones will come forth. This is the true test to whether its your mind reacting to the change in the patterns of your life and yearning for the missing piece, or whether you truely lover her. Wait it out man......

 

thanks for all the input..much appreciated

 

Join the "rme" you'll forget all about that stuff and just concentrate on survival....

But on a more serious note...my high school sweetheart and I went separate ways after I got out of the military the first time.....Ten years later we hooked up. That was 25 years ago and now she knows if she doesn't want me to be upset with her she just buys stuff for my truck. If all else fails buy a dog or ask for a pic of Chriss 4x4 Molly. She's a looker!!!!!

 

Due- you're 21 years old. Hardly old enough to be getting all settled down with someone. Especially not when you're arguing and not getting along. I had so many friends who did that- settled down, got married, had 5 kids, and divorced by age 25. Now is the time that you should be getting out there and having fun. Seriously.

 

Good GOD gentlemen! Another relationship question. Do what you want, not what a bunch of people say on some TACOMA fourm. Break up with her, stay with her, bone her sister, screw her friend..... dude it is up to you. You want advice about your truck come to a TACOMA fourm. You want QUALITY advice about your relationship ask a friend or family member who knows both of you. This is not meant to be a dick to those who responded. A+ for helping out. I just dont understand why every guy who has relationship issues brings it here. Consult people who actually know you and your situation for sound advice...

Just my 2 cents