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Getting totally trashed tonight.. Cause I dont know what to think...

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by sil3ncer7, Sep 5, 2009.

  1. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:33 PM
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    sil3ncer7

    sil3ncer7 [OP] Gimme some mud n ull have a good time

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    Well its a long story but I know what you all are going to say, I am 20 and I should move on, but what it boils down to is (minus some stuff):

    • I have feelings for her (more fun than I ever have with a girl)
    • She has some feelings for me, shes just still unsure about a relationship since she was just cheated on)
    • She got cheated on by "him"
    • Hes in town for a wedding... Both her and him were invited to
    • She says they wont get back together
    • I have a feeling they will
    • which leaves me.. well just a friend like I was
    • And shes moving in 6 months back to school... Where he goes
    • We will still be really good friends (Ill do anything I can to keep it that way)

    So I am just unsure about alot of stuff and dont know where to begin. I guess its my first REAL feelings for someone and then kinda heartbreak... So I guess I am gonna play it off as "As long as shes happy, I am happy for her" (Even if it kills me, and I know I support her better) So I have my friend the 1/5th and I am going to try to finish the weekend off right... Blacked out.

    Thats all :D
     
  2. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:37 PM
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    wildjerseyfirefighter

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    dude...he's gonna smash it again..cut it as a total loss and move on. Still get your drink on tho
     
  3. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:40 PM
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    sil3ncer7

    sil3ncer7 [OP] Gimme some mud n ull have a good time

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    Like I said its harder than that.. We have been friends for 7+ years and I hope he does fuck it up again... But I don't want him to drag her through all that again.

    Im just too confused.. idk
     
  4. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:46 PM
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    well, either she's going to be smart and move on, or she's going to be immature and go back to him.
    The girl I'm dating now, was in a 3 year relationship when I met her, and we were talking and I was being as respectful as possible about her relationship, (i.e. not messing around with her), when she found out he was habitually cheating on her. She came straight to me afterwards and we've been dating for 2 years now.
    My point being, was she was mature enough NOT to go back to him or forgive him. So stay friends and something might happen later...
    Plant the seed of friendship, watch it grow and mature, and then fuck the plant!
    Simple as that. haha
     
  5. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:50 PM
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    sil3ncer7 [OP] Gimme some mud n ull have a good time

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    Nicely put.. and thats hat I am trying to do... I just hate to ee her going down the same path, same person, same place, that she got screwed over.. I dont know. She will always have me here if she needs it and she knows that, I am just the type of person that can see it and I try to stop it before it ge to that point.. But yet no one listens to me... and she means more than anyone in the past and I just hate seeing it..
     
  6. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:52 PM
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    BUILT, not bought...
    1) fuck that bitch, shes not worth the trouble.

    2)go scam on some sluts, that'll make you feel better.




    it always does for me.

    check out my gallery, and the two photos I uploaded to TW Live last night. ;)
     
  7. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:53 PM
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    it takes one girl to get over another. find a slut, bang her out, and get a bottle of jack! kill 2 birds with one stone.
     
  8. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:54 PM
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    Yeah, I reminded my girl of what all he had done to her, and why she wasn't making a mistake dating me (like 20 mins after she got out of her 3 year relationship haha!) and I only had to tell her once and she made up her mind right then and there!

    Also, if your drunk, DO NOT txt or call that chick. You're going to say or do something really retarded....done that a couple of times...haha it's not worth it!
     
  9. Sep 5, 2009 at 8:55 PM
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    That'll get the job done!
    Just don't let that other chick find out about it!
     
  10. Sep 5, 2009 at 9:02 PM
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    sil3ncer7 [OP] Gimme some mud n ull have a good time

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    I dun did that 2 weeks ago.. AND WOW did I fuck up. Luckly she "forgave" me, but she still cracks little jokes about it but I write it off as I deserved it, but yea... I second guessed that whole being honest and straight up with "the other"... I thought that was the best way.. It was made WELL aparent the second I stopped talking...
     
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    listen to that country song just to see you smile you could get emotional but its all good man and a friend that youve had that long that close prolly better off that way it always ends up weird man and yall can never be as close as you were been there done that listened to tha song but didnt have the fifth i had the qp but its all good man jus go on bout youre way theres plenty out there i feel you pain
     
  12. Sep 5, 2009 at 9:19 PM
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    No mention of it but does she know you have feelings for her (special, in love feelings)? Listen man, I would normally say tell her how you feel and get it off your chest. BUT, if she is leaving town for school then bite the bullet and say nothing. A long distance relationship is hard and especially the case if its a "new" relationship. Should the moment be awkward only to go your separate ways, then its not worth loosing the friendship. I'm not sure how serious you are about it, but when (not if) you go out to drink (im jealous BTW), do it with good company you can shoot the $hit with.
     
  13. Sep 5, 2009 at 9:45 PM
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    sil3ncer7 [OP] Gimme some mud n ull have a good time

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    She knows.. We have even talked about going out but for her it was too soon and she didt wanna jump into something if it was gonna hurt her (wich I would never do expecially to her)... We have all been through it so I know I am not the only one here but its the feelings I hae or her and that possibly (depending on what happens this weekend with her ex) her feelings but I am hoping that she is right, and nothing is going to happen. and even if we did start dating and I was serious abou a long distance thing I dont know if itll be good cause he is there by her more... I sm just in a pickle and it sux

    Thanks god for TW members
     
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    Oh Gawd, not more advice on girl problems...

    Go get absolutely fooked up on alcohol, have a buddy drop you off at a strip club, lose a shitload of money to some cranked out stripper, get a ride home from someone, drunk dial her at 3am or drunk text either or and go to bed. Wake up at noon or whenever she calls pissed off (which you just ignore the phone anyways) and go about your life.
     
  15. Sep 5, 2009 at 9:53 PM
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    now...........this is some sound,solid advice right here!!!:cheers:
     
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    Well then...
    follow your own advice and find a girl with a taco and ask for permission to see it! :D Let the moment pass and see what happens then.
     
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    Oh yeah and don't forget the camcorder so you can record this ^ and post it on youtube. :D
     
  18. Sep 5, 2009 at 10:03 PM
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    sil3ncer7 [OP] Gimme some mud n ull have a good time

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    Youtube bans xxx vids.... we al know that...
     
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    Correction... TW UG (I'll leave it at that).
     
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    sil3ncer7 [OP] Gimme some mud n ull have a good time

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    Well if I get it Itll go right there :D
     
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