girlfriend left me

Drive on to the next objective....I am sure all of us went through this at one time, its life man. You'll move on and it will all be ok, enjoy your youth and get out there and make a name for yourself.

 

Its like all these girls have the same genes or something?
You loose the people close to you.
You spend UN-NECESSARY cash.
Then they leave you!
there not worth it! stay single! trust me!
And dont look all sad. Thats exactly what they want.

 

hey man
hang in there. ive also been in your shoes.. its one thing to lose a gf of atleast a couple years, but its another to have ditched all your friends while with her.. and then your left alone once the breakup comes. Friends, either they will come back, or you will gain new ones.. im dealin with the same sh*t. it can always get better if you want it to

 

WTF is the OP doing with one chick for 2 years when he is 19?!?!?!? Go out and get some before you start to forget what being young is all about. As my old Gunny said, "Wash the sheets and go get some more tang to try a new position."

Really... 19 is a great age to go out and try some crazy shit. Now get out there and do some crazy shit.... because once your older and married its alot harder (but still possible).

 

Here's what I have learned... there will ALWAYS be someone.

 

haha this is great.. lots of positive support.

When I was in my senior year of high school my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me and fucked a bunch of different dudes at a party, then tried making it seem like i was the one at fault. I've spent alot of time missing her. I lost all of my friends because of her, but there is always good that comes with bad. Because I had lost all my friends and my g/f, I no longer had anything tying me to anything. I decided to hike a few states of the appalachian trail, then I lived in NC for a year and worked as a white water raft guide, then I moved to CO and worked as a lift operator and snowboarded everyday. Now looking back on it I am sooo happy we broke up otherwise I never would have gotten the chance to do the things I've gotten to do.

Its gonna be tough for a while, but find other things to do. take what you are passionate about and go do it. Hanging out with friends helps too.. especially if they can introduce you to some new girls.

Dont worry man.. you will be FINE!

 

We have a saying where I am from...
Woman is just like a bus, if you miss you, there is another one coming right behind it.
(Sometimes is quick, sometimes takes just a little longer

 

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Bingo....what he said.

 

Bummer. Since she wont talk to you, assume its her fault.

 

Yeah i will just assume its my fault idk why it is just my mindset

 

You gotta get rid of that mind set. That's the worst thing to do for yourself. Do the Ricky Bobby thing. "In the morning when I wake up, I piss excellence." If you can think positive and keep a confident head on your shoulders you'll have a group of friends in no time and maybe some cute chick will run across your radar. An awesome girl wants a guy who's the alpha male. Analyze yourself for a second. Do you wanna hang out with someone who low, negative with no energy or do you wanna be the person looking for the next opportunity? Break ups are hard. I completely understand it take a few days to get over a break up.

 

It is time to focus on what YOU need to do. For example, school, work, pursue a hobby that you have not had a chance to do before or even pick up a few new ones. Be optimistic, the world is not over and everything will be fine. Contact old friends and catch up because often times your friends will want to catch up with you too.

 

Ahhh, women.... Buddy, outgoing and up-beat, do your own thing, and they will come to you. I had one try to put me in the friend zone while dating, I smiled, said it wasn't what I wanted, got my stuff and walked away. I haven't spoken to her and won't -- she can start the convo, and I'll blow her off.

What I'm saying through that example is, set your boundaries, don't let women push them, stand your ground, and do your thing. You'll have women in no time; many of them, and you won't really need to think about this one.

Take your time, then move on and enjoy life. Whatcha' doing with your wheels, since it's better than your ex?

 

that sucks BUT YOUR 19 YEARS OLD. i was smashing anything i could at that age. hole and heartbeat was optional.you will go though 20 chicks before you marry. fuck her or go fuck her friend and she if she likes that.

 

gf cheated on me a few months ago and i kinda thank her for it. right now im tossing up 3 different girls at the same time and this wouldnt have been made possible with a gf.

 

I don't see how you guys can do it pick up girls han the away i met my ex was from another girl i was trying to date

 

yes it will

 

from now on bud..... 24 hr relationships that's it. At 19 you got your whole life for a chick to fuck it up. Take out that sick truck of yours and screw what ever you can..... except the really big ones, one wrong move and your on the sidelines for a while.

 

dude your 19! bitches come and go, get over it.

 

Just live your life without trying to find girls and you will find them. That's how it worked for me at least. When I was least trying to get in a relationship, girls started to come to me.

It's weird like that. I got out of a 3 year relationship back at the beginning of June, got in another relationship a little over a month ago and now I'm back single again. Shit happens, but life moves on. Just learn from the past and don't have any regrets. There will be plenty of chicks interested in you dude, don't worry about it.