Help oem wires

Hello, I’m making this post because I had bought pre wired relays and oem switches I had wired them but it’s not working right the devices I’m trying to power on won’t work

I have three wires from the relay switch it’s blue black and white

the normal switch is green red 1 red 2 and black

if anyone can help me out I’d truly appreciate it I’m trying to wire my starlight headliner and some led strips for the interior

 

Pictures of said relays and switches, specifically of the wiring to them, would be very helpful in figuring this out. Every manufacturer uses whatever color coding they want for these things. Also pictures of how the starlight headliner and strips are wired, or the controllers for them.