i want kids, she doesnt!

i don't know much about trucks so this is the only thread I can add something of value to!

the first year of marriage is tough...no matter how long you know someone. Something is different and it takes a man to get through that. Take your time.

As for kids, (and I'm not trying to be a dick here) if you spent as much time discussing with your wife what her thoughts are on the subject as you have reading our posts, you'd probably get somewhere. Having said that, you don't ever want to talk someone into having kids.

My wife owns her own business and didn't have a maternal bone in her body. She worked 12 hours a day and swore she'd never stop. But she did a 180 when we had our first daughter...and now we're expecting #3.

Tell her why you want them, what it means to you and how she can be a part of something greater than her. If she doesn't want to, that is something that you have to live with...but you made a commitment to stay with her until you die. That can't be taken lightly.

 

Ha! Women don't think rationally....

 

Great advice...kids are great and try to control you temper and urges until you can figure something out.

 

You kinda sound like a douche who shouldn't be having kids anyway.

 

I didn't want to be the one but that needed to be said.

 

Somebody had to

 

cheat, but make sure she is hotter than your wife

 

LOL, damn. Well I hope dude is that smart. But maybe not

 

If she doesn't want to have kids because she is worried about losing her body I wonder how she is going to feel waking up ever hour and feeding it and rocking it while it screams for no reason. How she probably wont have time to take a shower and do her hair because the baby needs her.

You could always impregnate another female and try to convince your wife that its hers...

 

If it's just because she doesn't want to get fat, there are TONS of kids who need to be adopted.

 

Here's my .02:
Communicate, communicate, communicate...........If you guys are not communicating then things are not going to get resolved. I mean really sit down and talk, don't turn into a he said she said. Be mature about it.

In marriage/relationships it's a 2-way street........In any relationship it has to be a 50/50 split MOST of the time or it isn't going to work.

 

No, marriage is a one way street and the woman is driving the car. Thats why marriage is so scary!

 

I guess my wife and I are the exception Married 7 year next month, but been together for 11.

 

Yeah, if you think with your head/ heart instead of your dick/ ego it makes picking a good woman much easier and also makes marriage easier.

 

^^LOL!!! Nicely said.

 

everyone sorry about the bad posts last night, had a little to much to drink and i said a few things that i shouldnt have like cheating on my wife. im pretty sure i could never do that, and my ego got a little carried away my first now that i look at it i would consider myself a douche also. thanks for the replies!

 

Don't worry about it

 

And for the record VT spent a day of his free time helping with an install, he is a great guy!

 

arent you the one that called me a douche, seemed to piss a few people off that i was thinking like that

 

thanks dan!