keyless entry/remote starter issue

I've looked all over the internet and the forums for a solution and haven't found anything. Some help would be much appreciated, thank you.

I have a 2003 Xtra-Cab Tacoma, 4WD SR5 TRD V6 and I'm pretty good at wiring stuff usually and wanted a day project, so I bought a keyless entry/remote start, its a Ready Remote system, I followed all of its instructions and even watched the video. I followed all the wiring guides from ncttora.com and from the Ready Remote site, PLUS one of the keyless entry threads already and still it is not working right. I think there's some major wiring issues because when I first tried starting with the remote starter it just turned the accessories on, lights and everything so then I figured alright somethings not connected or something, but now its clicks on then off right away, and when i hit unlock on the pad, it turns the blinker on...and unlock turns it on twice, then turns the parking lights on...I'm totally lost and I need my truck back together for tomorrow
any help is much appreciate guys thanks.