Need some tips to activate the Bluetooth

Hello, got a 2010 with TRD/JBL/Bluetooth. I can't get the bluetooth to pair with my phone, Nokia Mirage 2605. My phone sees the bluetooth fine but not the other way around. I even turned on the discovery mode on the phone while trying to pair but no sucess.

I tried my wife's and daughter's phone without a problem. So it's not the bluetooth, it's something with the phone. Is there a setting I forgot to use?

Thanks

 

i had the same problem with my nokia E75.

-delete your text messages: in box and sent box so there are less than 200 messages. (yea its weird but it works)
-then delete the unsuccessful pairing entry in your bluetooth settings
-reset the phone (power off, remove battery wait a few seconds)
-turn it back on and re pair