newb needing some advice

hey everyone. im new to the forum and i cant quite find any answers. i have an 02 tacoma V6 2wd trd prerunner. i am definately goin to lift it 6" but i cant find any lifts for it. i can only find lift kits for a 5 lug but i have a 6 lug. also the lift kits for the 6 lug are only for a 4 wheel drive set up. any advice would be awsome. also i will be buying intake, headers exhast and try to redo the computer (for a little more power) all at the same time. so any advice on all of these will be much appreciated. i just sold my turbo MR2 so i have a little bit of money to play with. ive read around a little and have found that everyone on here is awsome and i cant wait to hear back from you guyz.thank you for all the help that will hopefully come.