OME complete suspension or Bilsteins with full dakar leaf pack

I have a 2013 DCSB OR with some 265/75/16 revo2. wishing to upgrade suspension. To many options to choose from. wishing to spend around $1500. Was looking at Wheelers offroad Complete OME suspension and getting some Light racing UCA's. would be around $1500. Or should i go with a 3" lift kit with bilstein 5100 height adj coil overs from toytec, would upgrade to full dakar leaf pack and rear 5160's. The lift from toyec will cost more especially with added uca's.
i'm looking for a heavier payload with a decent ride. wont be going hardcore offroading. just dirt trails and sand. most of my driving is highway

Input would be greatly appreciated.

 

I have the toytec 3" with dakars and 5160s. Im happy. I havnt done the UCA's yet but I will later on.

 

what difference in ride do you notice over stock

 

Mine was only stock for 2 days, but I didnt notice a difference. Thats why you pay 1,500 for a lift instead of 150 for spacers. When you put the right lift on it rides like stock.

 

demellos 20% off icons plus free shipping you should look into that

 

My co worker has reservoir Icons in all 4 corners on his raptor. It rides great.

 

that's a little bit out of my price range. and overkill for what i want it for

 

I'm in the same rut as you are. the Icons would be my dream lift. I just cant decide what I want do do! Im looking for a comfy ride down the road that is as close to stock as it can get if not comfier but I want my ride to sit at least 2 to 3" higher. The Bilstein lift is something im looking at. but I just want a really special lift. it would be awesome to have some genius suspension guy tell me what I should put on with links to each part. or a link to the kit.