Relationship....what would you do? LONG read!

Regardless of what you do in the future you need to take car of your current business now. Which means:
a) try to fix your marriage via counseling of some sort -or-
b) get a divorce so you can move on without being a total dirtbag.

Sometimes relationships can be saved. Sometimes they cannot be saved. Either way, cheating is a chicken shit way out of a situation people are not happy with. It shows that they'd rather take the easy way out then put in some effort leading to a resolve of reconciliation or divorce.

And of course you're hitting it off with this other chick. She's giving you the attention your wife isn't and vice versa. You guys can talk about how crappy your spouses are and show interest in each other which has to feel good. You guys probably think "Finally, somebody understands." But it doesn't make it right.

I 100% frown on cheating and believe it's one of the lowest acts that anybody could do to somebody they supposedly love or loved. There is no excuse.