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She gone...

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by RoyB, Nov 21, 2009.

  1. Nov 21, 2009 at 12:05 PM
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    RoyB

    RoyB [OP] Well-Known Member

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    The GF that is. I had to tell her to leave. I could not take it anymore. I was constantly being told that I did not care and that I was a jerk. Talk about passive aggressive.

    What was the straw? She had a lump on her breast, so we went to the doctor and I held her hand while he tried to see if there was liquid in it with a needle. I held her hand while she cried. Drove her home and took care of her.

    Then on a work day she had to go get a sample of the tissue (biopsy). I asked if she wanted me to take off work, even thought I don't get PTO. She said it was ok, her mom would go with her. I talked to her before the procedure and called her after. She came home around 7pm and i took her into the bedroom to lay and rest because she was sore. I fell asleep and all of a sudden I am a big jerk and don't give her enough sympathy and her friend at work care more about her than I do. WTF.

    It's like one day I'm the best bf around and then the next I am an asshole for no reason. She then constantly played the quiet game and never said what was wrong. UGHHH.

    Well, I am done being called a jerk and that I don't care or that I am cheating or something.

    Met her as a FWB in June of 08. She moved in Feb of 09, Became BF/GF around May of 09. Now, shes gone. Pretty long run. Oh well.
     
  2. Nov 21, 2009 at 12:09 PM
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    Brunes

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    Too bad dude...Sounds like it might be better for you this way tho. Tons of other fish in the sea!!
     
  3. Nov 21, 2009 at 12:17 PM
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    rick

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    damn Roy. sorry bout your luck. you can't live with em and you can't kill em. and i wish her the best
     
  4. Nov 21, 2009 at 12:22 PM
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    AvsFanTRD

    AvsFanTRD Oh gravity, thou art a heartless bitch!

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    I had a gf just like that once. I could never do anything right and everything wrong was always my fault. Trust me, you are much better off without. You will feel much happier about life in the days to come.
     
  5. Nov 21, 2009 at 12:30 PM
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    masterblaster

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    been there, done that.....her name didnt happen to be jill did it?
     
  6. Nov 21, 2009 at 12:39 PM
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    wow, seems like a lotta girls are like that... I made the mistake and married a girl like that... but I redeemed myself by divorcing her.... good choice man, she sounds like she is bipolar
     
  7. Nov 21, 2009 at 12:42 PM
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    sorry bout that lost, Tacoma'll make it better
     
  8. Nov 21, 2009 at 5:28 PM
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  9. Nov 21, 2009 at 5:31 PM
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    Sorry to hear this Roy. I hope that you find your happiness soon.
     
  10. Nov 21, 2009 at 6:15 PM
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    sounds like this was something in the making for a while. Oh well, onto the next one. Someone once told me the best way to get over a woman was to get on top of another, only she said it about a man, so I guess it works both ways. :D:D:D:D
     
  11. Nov 21, 2009 at 6:19 PM
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    AvsFanTRD

    AvsFanTRD Oh gravity, thou art a heartless bitch!

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    Doesn't last very long? What's your definition of long? I'm going on 2 1/2 yrs without a gf.
     
  12. Nov 21, 2009 at 6:24 PM
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    Marriage and successful relationships for the under-30 age group in the US are impossible now. Just FYI. You can thank poor parenting by the previous generation and the media for that.

    In any event, best of luck moving on.
     
  13. Nov 21, 2009 at 6:25 PM
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    The torture is over now...Rejoice!
     
  14. Nov 21, 2009 at 9:26 PM
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    Roy, I feel ya brother, just ended a 3 year relationship. I didn't care and was a jerk too....

    Such is life, it continues. and...the hunt goes on!!!
     
  15. Nov 21, 2009 at 9:36 PM
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    here's a great quote i heard the other day.... "if i woulda killed her when we met i would have been outa jail by now."
     
  16. Nov 21, 2009 at 9:57 PM
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    At least you didnt have kids with her
     
  17. Nov 21, 2009 at 10:00 PM
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    AvsFanTRD Oh gravity, thou art a heartless bitch!

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    x infinity on that one
     
  18. Nov 21, 2009 at 10:03 PM
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    mntbiker2008 First I derp.. then I herp

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    thats what happened with my last gf... sux.... good one day... asshole the next... sorry... not for me... seeya! keep your head up man... everything happens for a reason!
     
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