She gone...

mine's kinda like that. but only when we argue i get accused of not caring and shit. and honestly, i dont care when we are arguing lol

 

lol mines pissed off at me tonight..I feel your pain brother..Shit happens, get over it.

 

While reading OP, your problem became very obvious. She's got tits. Anytime there's tits involved, you're eventually going to have problems. Oh yeah, they're all fun and games to begin with. LOL

 

The quiet game is the worst!! She obviously didn't appreciate your efforts as a good bf.. you'll find someone who will.

 

maybe she had some bipolar sh!t going on or she just wasnt ...uh....man enough to tell you she wanted it to be over. either way, your better off without the psycho.

 

Listen, you'll be thinking a lot about the decision you made. It's normal. We all know that. To reaffirm your decision... ask yourself this, " Is this how I want my marriage 6 years from now?" If the answer is no, then you made the right decision. This affects you both now instead of more people later. Good call. Enjoy life, have fun and hand out with those you call friends (family is a given). Good luck man.

 

so what were teh results of the biopsy?

 

http://www.dthatb.com/

 

Damn, you beat me to it.

 

Not offended. Only reason it lead to a relationship was because we were hanging out outside of the bedroom a lot. I liked her and she liked me. I wouldn't say that she pushed me away. She is a woman, a young one. They are immature despite what they think.

I was talking to one of my EX gfs from back in the day. She has a bf, not interested in her that way..... But she asked what happened. I told her that she needed to grow up. She says, that's the same thing I told her back when she was 23 lol. I asked her if she did, she said she did grow up and was immature when we were dating. Maybe I am just too mature for these younger girls. I don't have a lot of tolerance for games....and that's what this is, a game. Silent treatment, and her not trusting me are games and insecurities. No matter how many times I try to convince her otherwise, she will come up with crazy ideas.

Did I force her? I don't think I did. I was content just being FWB, and so was she. I didn't see the point in dating anyone else because we got along good together.... OUTSIDE the bedroom. Usually any of my FWB were just that, physical. I couldn't stand them outside the bedroom.

She did make strides to be a better gf and make me happy. She actually came a long way in all departments, except for the accusations.

Oh well. There has not been any communication since the couple texts saturday morning. Her stuff is all still here so I don't know what's going on. I would like to know her biopsy report, but I am not going to be the first to make communication.

Yea, there are a lot of girls out there. Finding them is HARD. I work construction so it's not like I am surrounded by girls. All my friends have married friends so I am left looking for girls where? Who knows.

 

i agree. I was immature too and probably still am in some ways. I just grew up a bit quicker than most. girls just think that by the age 18 they are all grown up and ready for the real world.

 

So, you gonna put the pics back up in the UG?

 

Sorry to hear about how it had to end. I had a similar situation, but at least after ending things and prior to her not talking to me, she told me that she's been cheating on me with that co-worker that cared so much about her. Too bad I can't do anything stupid because I'll lose my job.

Seems like everyone's already told you there are other fish in the sea. It takes a little while to re-adjust to the single life and going out to meet women, but you'll be fine. Took me a few weeks to find an interesting girl, but it's possible. There are more single ones than you think, you just have to look in places that you normally wouldn't. If you don't have a dog, borrow someone's and take them for a walk. Work's ALL the time!

Good luck with the hunt.

 

Sorry to hear the bad news. I am going through the same thing but I was with my ex for almost 7 years!! Oh well, I'm back in the game and am already talking/texting some girls. Just take it one day at a time brother and if you ever need to talk...PM me!!!

 

Hang on to that '99 Vette. Remember, the only difference between paying for sex and getting it for free,is that when you get it for free, it costs a whole lot more!

 

I'm already on the trail, while only braking up about a week ago I've felt like the relationship was done a lot longer ago.

being single back on the hunt, so worth it.