She gone...

The best way to get over her is to get on TOP of someone else

 

Haha, thanks cmack!! I dont know if thats a compliment or what?!?!

 

That's a long time! whered you find these girls?

I have a dog, we go for walks all the time. its getting cooolldddd here in chicago though I live in a family town, not too many singles.

 

you had a gf?

jk jk


Anyway, sorry to hear man, like they all said, plenty out there.

 

Well there's one that lives here in town. She is also going through a break-up. She was with him for 3 years. Then there's a couple that live in Salt Lake City, but they are young and just want to party it up so I don't see them to much. One of my friends is trying to hook me up with one of the new girls here in town that just moved here less then a year ago. For the first couple of months I just stayed home on the weekends and didnt do much. But I finally got sick of it and started going out on my days off to get some exposure!!! It helped a lot!! Just being around different friends and girls!!! But its still really hard for me right now with my ex. We finally got our divorce papers all turned in so within a week or so, it will be finalized. Now I know everyone is different, but it might get really hard for you here in the next couple of months. If it does, friggin PM because I have been through some ruff shit, trust me!!!!



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Haha I know, no worries bro!

 

Wait! There are girls out there that don't blame everything on the guy?

 

tacoma make it all better dude!

 

I was out at the bars sat night. Girls in chicago are so unapproachable, especially at bars. Maybe I need to go to the bookstore or seomething.

I emailed her asking how the biopsy turned out. She said it came back normal aka non cancerous.

 

Dont be in a rush though. And yes, bars probably aren't the best place to pick up girls unless your looking for a one nighter.

Well im glad she is going to be okay.

 

i dont think you being "too mature" is your problem. you say you dont like games but you also said "i dont want to be the first to call". thats a game. thats as much of a game as not calling a girl for 3 days after getting her number.

 

Dude, not trying to be insensitive to her possible issues with the test & all BUT........if shit's like this already this soon with the fuck you & aww you're my everything from hour to hour, the best thing for you is to walk away & count your blessings that kids didn't become part of this. If she can't find some even keel cruising instead of the hi/lo rollercoaster mood swings then you'd be saving yourself from much agony trying to hang with her...to what end? Go find another that can be kept happy most of the time, especially when you're really trying to keep her that way.

 

Read above. She got her tests last night. I emailed her today asking about it. She could just ad easily let me know when she got the results...

 

Yeah true. Games, games, games. Sick of that stuff!!!!

 

Never in a rush, but why be a bum crying at home?

 

Yes, very true!! And like I said, thats what I did for the first couple of months. Now I go out on my days off!!!

 

i see she got the results. my point is that you claim to not play games when obviously you do. and yes, she could call you, but you dumped her, so why should she make the first move?

 

well, all i can say is that, you dumped her while she was having a bad time, so my guess is you actually didn't cared that much.....idk

 

She actually texted me On sat first saying she wanted to go back to roomate status. So I guess she technically dumped me? I just told her to go by her moms until she figured out what she wanted. That I wasn't going to do this anymore. He'll, maybe we aren't even technically broken up lol.

 

Just got a text from her "do you miss me yet". Lol.