What's your take on meet your girl's ex?

Holy crap man do we live the same lives or what? god this brings back memories except i was at a party and the guy was coming and decided he didnt want to come anymore. haha

 

Don't worry about it. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. Everyone you are with will eventually run into an ex. Nothing you can do to prevent that. So just go with the flow & not worry about it.

"I am in inherently insanely jealous and possessive person." Get over that trait, or you will quickly become the ex.

 

OK, it's settled.

She knows how much I hate that she's friend's with an X and that she wouldn't like it if I got an X to go to dinner with all us. She says she understands now that I put it that way. But she never even gave it a second thought cause it was no big. Now she sees how disrespectful it is.

So she says she won't see him alone, just talk on the phone to catch us as they are friends and he is marrying someone.

So, I can accept that.

This thread actually helped as I showed it to her.

 

good to hear man!

 

Im friends with most of my x's... and never have a thought of going bak to one of them or cheating on my gf at all. She has hung around them and it is no big deal... its all about trust.

 

I know I trust her, but when I talk about the past and someone else does, it's all kind of nubulous and out there somewhere.

Then to actually see the person who had sex with your girl makes the past real and brings it to the present.

That's what bothered me. Not that I didn't trust her.

Seeing the guy made the past real by allowing me to actually see the two together doing the horizontal boogie.

 

I was about to, as soon as I found out about it I was walking towards the room he was in with an empty fourty in my hand, my gf pushed me back into our bedroom and told me to let it go just because she didn't want anything to happen. Probably a good thing because the guy is twice my size, and I'm not small either. He was one of those muscle assholes.

 

i just had to lol after that post, my advice is dont worry until you have a reason to suspect something. shes a human just like you bro and you cant try to control her because if you do its just more tension against the two of you, she is in a relationship with you but she still needs to feel free and not tied up like a hostage... just my 2 cents even tho im not dr phil

 

Lol I dont think I would have shown my GF this thread... I think she would have dumped me. But I am glad to hear things are better... btw how old are you? Just curious as to how serious of a relationship/part of your life you are in.