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woman help?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by fireturk41, Feb 13, 2010.

  1. Feb 13, 2010 at 4:40 PM
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    fireturk41

    fireturk41 [OP] I like to break shit!

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    ive been talkin to this chick, shes hot and got a rocking personality, but has had really bad boyfriends in her life.

    weve been talking for a lil while and we had a small wrench get thrown in our relationship when her best friends told her i was cheating and some chick called her to tell her i was talking to her. (none of this is true!)

    we eventually agreed to forget all about this and start fresh as just friends and work up from there. I know shes into me cause she tells her friends whom are friends of mine, but lately shes been playing hard to get and its driving me nuts! my question is why the hell do women do this and how do i get her to act like she used to?
     
  2. Feb 13, 2010 at 4:45 PM
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    jlvhrse

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    Well, the best advice I can give you is to be patient, open and honest and be there to support her. Make sure she knows how you feel about her and that you want her to trust you, if you are willing to talk about it and work with her she should open up in time. She may not be "playing hard to get" but just trying to protect herself. If and when she opens up, don't hurt her. Good luck!
     
  3. Feb 13, 2010 at 4:46 PM
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    mntbiker2008

    mntbiker2008 First I derp.. then I herp

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    no man will ever know..... i too am going through this right now. IT SUCKS!!!!!!!! :eek::frusty:


    yeh listen to anything a woman says on here! they know best! us men dont know jack sh!t when it comes to how a woman thinks
     
  4. Feb 13, 2010 at 4:53 PM
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    jlvhrse

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    :rofl:
    at least your honest!
     
  5. Feb 13, 2010 at 4:53 PM
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    fireturk41

    fireturk41 [OP] I like to break shit!

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    i know! shell treat me bad, yet good at the same time, shell act like she doesnt want me, but yet go outta her way to see me. i care about her alot and the whole wrench in the gears made her step back and reconsider me, but im completely honest open and over all a good guy, just confused as shit
     
  6. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:10 PM
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    ColdZeroBSP

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    Cuz they enjoy torturing us to death with their useless mind games. I say dump her ass, don't talk to her for like an entire month and then see how she likes "playing hard to get." Seriously you can't be all concerned about her and trying to figure out what shes thinking. No man in the great cosmos has ever known exactly what a woman is thinking at any given moment in time or space...ever....which actually makes my sig null and void lol
     
  7. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:14 PM
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    TacoSupreem

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    Don't give her too much attention! Women don't like to be smothered. I say just dont try to talk to her and see if she comes around!
     
  8. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:18 PM
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    for get all that and get yourself a fuck buddy and call it a night.
     
  9. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:20 PM
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    just ask her if she's into threesomes...problem solved!:)
     
  10. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:22 PM
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    Some people want to settle down while others still think they are in high school or college...:rolleyes:
     
  11. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:24 PM
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    I usually do things this way and it usually works well.
     
  12. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:24 PM
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    yep, best test in the world. ease off and see what her reaction is... just hang out with some other girls, and you'll find out if she's into you :thumbsup:

    they're not that complicated...
     
  13. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:24 PM
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    Turk,
    Cliche', but if you want it you need to work for it. It doesn't sound like it will be easy but if you think she is worth it do what you need to do.
     
  14. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:25 PM
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    lol
     
  15. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:26 PM
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    women ain't worth shit!
    treat them like they are!

    Lying, cheating, munipulating, hoe bags.
     
  16. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:32 PM
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    um.... If she has been hurt in the past, do you think that maybe, just maybe she may be trying to avoid having it happen again? If she started to get some feelings for the OP she may be (subconsciously, or purposely) backing off to try to avoid being hurt, when all she really wants is to be able to trust him. It's not an easy place to be when you are out of a rough relationship that has left you insecure and scared, then you meet someone new that you can see yourself having feelings for. She is probably scare that this relationship will end up like her last if she opens up to him and lets herself be vunerable.. Maybe she is confused, and needs some time to work it out in her head. We are all human, and yes, some girls do like to play games, but not all. Just like some boys like to play games. Think about it like that before you label all of "us".

    That is not true for all women. We are not one size fits all. The best thing you can do is take the time to get to know her.

    Yeah, that's real productive. If your looking for unplanned pregnancies and STDs that is.
     
  17. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:34 PM
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    I am sorry that a girl, maybe two (if youve even had that many) hurt you once in the past. MAYBE when you grow up, you will be worth a girl being good for you, until then they will treat you the way you deserve.

    Oh, and congrats for being the winner of my first ever negative rep point. Jerk.
     
  18. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:41 PM
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  19. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:43 PM
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    fireturk41 [OP] I like to break shit!

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    yeah i see her veiw point cause she has a rough family life, her last boyfriend literally would beat the shit outta her to the point she needed facial reconstruction surgery, and i came into her life when her grandpa died, so i can be seen as maybe trying to play her in a rough time

    but i wanna prove to her that i actually care bout her and even got her roses in her fav colors forvday, but idk how to show her im here and to earn her trust if she doesnt give my opportunities. her friends say she likes me alot and is into me, but she dont wanna show it
     
  20. Feb 13, 2010 at 5:44 PM
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    ColdZeroBSP

    ColdZeroBSP Yo homie, that my briefcase?

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    Sorry Jen, don't mean to throw you into the stereotype but if only some girls play games, I've managed to meet every single one of them. If everyone just spoke their mind instead of thinking one thing and acting the complete opposite everyone would be a lot better off. I'm just jaded I guess.
     
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